The Gifts of Heartbreak, Conscious Relating & Sourcing Inner Freedom - Andre Duqum | Deja Blu EP 116

Andre's biggest gift to himself and the world is his absolute presence and stillness, he offers so much with that alone. And Blue, you are everything your 7-year old version ever wanted you to become. Love this space.

I recently met up with two of my previous partners. One from 10 years ago and one from 5 years ago. What I have realised is I had carried so much pain with me of my own abandonment or disappointment. We could speak openly, and what was nice and really liberating is that the love and respect actually never really went away. It was covered in dirt (fear & pain) it I hope will help me in my journey of healing. Thank you guys for everything you do! 💚🌀🔥

The handpan was the best! In those few musical minutes you transferred more of the beautiful energy of your relationship as it is now than in the hours of talking. Please make this a part of your future podcasts together. Thank you for showing love, beauty, and creativity.

This video made me tear up. I really felt Blu's love for Andre and I felt Andre's love for Blu. You guys are wonderful beings sharing your vulnerabilities and authenticity in this. It's an inspiration to see continuous growth from you guys. Thank you for your Beauty, Love and Unity individually and together. Keep weaving your magic for the world to see :) P.s. This is defo the way to play the hang drum. Your wavelengths are undeniable <3

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Simply amazing when 2 luminaries can share their deepest insights and be unapologetically themselves….and that hand pan was the best cherry on top! Thanks as always to you both 🫶

The handpan playing and music was just sooo magical and so beautiful , Thank you Blu and Andre❤

I was wondering why Blu's set looks so much like Andre's. He built the darn thing!

All Andre’s beautiful qualities Blu emotionally expressed were so well articulated ..I felt the same sentiments as he beautifully hosted Doctor Joe ….pure perfection ! Thank You 🙏 Thank You 🙏 Thank You 🙏 I have Zero Social Media … Deja Blu and Know Thyself are my only true weekly gifts to myself. Today’s offering is the most magical double whammy of pure delight in every way! Thank You 🙏 Thank You 🙏 Thank you

Less than a week ago I discovered Blu. I felt such an aversion, I knew there was something important for my own healing. Her long blond braids, beautiful shining face, her wacky laugh so like mine... and a perfection that was nearly intolerable. I was profoundly envious of her beauty, her incredible life-force, her success, her Airstream trailer! Then all of a sudden I see "Goodbye" on her site. The woman is Charlotte, unrecognizable from Blu. My heart melts. No braids, no gypsy dress; a plain, open, serious face. She is telling us she is leaving her interview life, and describes the life she dreams of. I melt, fall in love. She has described my own life exactly. Now she is here with Andre. What?? they were together?? It is she who lets it all bleed, and that laugh which I now adore punctuates words of honesty and emotion that blows me away. Without knowing anything of these two, I know everything. As for my initial resistance to her, I understand that it is for me to own the Golden Shadow that is the plight of so many women who deny their own beauty and creativity. All this happened fast and so rightly. May Blu find true love and happiness with her destined Beloved. With infinite thanks to these two giving souls, and to the big holy that guides us all.

I absolutely love your emotions Blu! You are 100% open and not ashamed at all! Everyone should learn from you❤

Two wonderful humans, two beautiful, special souls ✨❤️❤️✨

This was like a healing therapy session for their relationship

Andre is so humble sincere and genuine what a blessing to be in his presence 🙏🪷✨

Two of my favorite souls together! I love Blu's playful Spirit and Andre's wisdom. Absolutely loved watching and listening, including the wonderful playing. You guys rock 💛

Thank you Andre for supporting and giving space to our men, it is so important and been scarce for too long. ❤❤❤

I found this one really beautiful and honest... I too like to stay in contact with men I've had an intimate connection with and we've both always found it extremely beneficial.... to actually see two people who are in the public eye doing it is quite encouraging. I can feel into the energy that was created in your partnership and it's soul mates... Divine partnership can be deceptive. Because truly our divine partner is ourselves... We all have MANY soul mates each with a special gift to give on our journey. A relationship that lasts a week can be just as potent as a marriage that lasts a lifetime. It's the quality of a connection over the quantity of time spent on it that seems most important. Can you accept another without trying to change them. Can you be vulnerable and let them see all of you without trying to hide your bad habits. This is the true test. How much can you love? Blu, Andre.... You both LOVE ❤❤ thank you for sharing x

Yes, watching the journey of this relationship of being 'exes' is truly inspiring and interesting...I have always found it so strange that the default is that exes are not friends nor can you express love to them ( especially if they are in new partnerships) ...when one realizes there is no separate self this territorializing of the psyche is a very weird thing...a new paradigm is in order and I truly appreciate watching this modeled in the two of you. This is lion heart stuff :)

Oh wow the handpan made me cry, the beautiful chemsitry between you is sooooo gorgeous ❤

The hand pan part brought tears to my eyes ❤