The Surprising Symptom of Depression- Anger and Irritability
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Published 2023-09-08
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Media portrays the depressed person as struggling to get out of bed, crying, drowning in despair. And while sadness is indeed a key symptom of depression, it’s not the only way it shows up. Anger or irritability is actually one of the primary ways that depression shows up in children and teens. But that anger doesn’t just turn off when you turn 18. So, today we're going to peel back the layers and explore how depression manifests as anger and irritability.
Irritability and Anger are Symptoms of Depression
Depression isn’t just feeling sad, it’s a whole-body experience that can impact every aspect of your life. Symptoms include losing pleasure in activities, changes in appetite or sleep, and often feeling sad, empty or hopeless. But researchers estimate that 30-40% of people experience rage or anger as part of their depression. Sometimes these emotions can be so overpowering that one researcher calls them “Anger attacks” he relates them to panic attacks. Other research showed that of 500 people with depression, over half of them experienced anger attacks, but that when they received treatment, like antidepressant medication, that anger subsided for the majority of them.
Another long-term study found anger is associated with more severe or chronic depression, higher rates of substance abuse, and it’s also linked to familial bipolar disorder.
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All Comments (21)
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Anger is a signal that something needs to change. Depression is the feeling that it won't.
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I feel like people have sympathy for the sadness part of depression but not other symptoms
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i feel like i come off as angry or irritated because i’m stuck in survival mode, im so tense sometimes the littlest things set me off in big ways
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I see depression as helplessness that arose after the world hurt you, you tried to defend yourself and cope, and you were unable to. I think more than anything, more than any theory of depression I can learn, I just want a hug in my darkest moments. A little compassion for the wounded part of me that was taught that I was powerless. After all I've been through, of course I'm depressed. It'd be much weirder if I wasn't. Please, just see me, offer me compassion, hugs, love, for the pain I have felt, not pills or pathology.
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Internalizing can also be “brushing it off” or “suck it up” or “it’s not that bad” and when you avoid those feelings long enough it builds and explodes in anger.
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I feel like my rage is always just right under the surface
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depression.. is when one is stuck in a unhealthy situation.. with no support or help... and they feel like they have no more energy or resilience .. to keep going . like they want to just quit!!! when, there is no light at the end of the tunnel
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I can definitely relate... I'm in so much emotional pain that oversteps the boundary into physical pain, it makes me grumpy as all hell.
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This really resonated with me. I’ve been so irritable and tired. I tend to be very negative and feel like everyone is against me. I’ve been trying to challenge my negativity with positivity.
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Thank you for this. As long as I can remember I’ve been the “angry child”. I’ve always had these bouts of rage that I couldn’t understand why. Extremely irritable. And with that I’ve also remembered feeling depressed as long as I can remember. This makes so much sense. I was recently diagnosed with persistent depression…so it answers the question of why am I always so angry, so exhausted/tired, so irritable. Goodness gracious.
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I am dealing with anger and depression and anxiety all at the same time. stress is killing me.
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I find that irritability and anger are the 2 main symptoms of my depression. It’s very difficult especially at work. My medication, and sleeping enough help. Seeing a psychologist for a few sessions a few years ago also helped.
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Yup. The biggest symptom of my grief from my husband dying is anger and bitterness.
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Thank you Emma. As an off-the-charts introvert with depression, it is hard to contemplate counseling because of the stress of starting a new relationship. Your sincere and sensible information has helped me put it together enough to reach out to the counselors available to me. I imagine you are also a big help to those who cannot afford counseling.❤
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Anxiety, depression, and PMS cycle = a 24/7 emotional rollercoaster 🫠 I internalize most of the time but too much internalizing leads to externalizing to cope with too much internalizing 😵💫
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I used to be depressed, but then i converted depression to hatred and anger. I used a method i call emotion alchemy. They are way more use full then sitting around feeling sad for your self.
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Psilocybin mushrooms healed me . I can't explain it but my experience has been spiritual and eye opening . I also started micro dosing . It really helped me get rid of depression and anxiety .
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I'm angry all the time, especially wen go out with road rage, since mum died, anxiety gone up, presumably it's grief with me, thanks as always ❤
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This is perfect to explain it all to my boyfriend! I'm not just angry person but my whole life has changed!!!
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