REASONS MEN DISRESPECT WOMEN by RC Blakes

Women are sexually unsatisfied, and yet, we sill create soul ties, children, and heart ache with disrespectful men. I SUPPORT ABSTINENCE %100. THANK YOU!

I'm here for this message. I stopped disrespecting myself, and now Men don't know how to approach me. I dress modestly, I stopped clubbing in 2004 fresh after graduating college. I stopped giving my body away to guys I was dating freely, I stopped being manipulated by no good guys, I stopped tolerating ignorance periodt. I don't entertain ignorance of Men nor women, I set boundaries for everyone who not on my Frequency Spiritually. I TOLERATE NO DISRESPECT ANYMORE. PERIODT.

I got so tired of being emotionally abused that I just woke up one morning and leave Was a prisoner in my own home

I'm 63 and been celibate for 10 years. I refuse to allow just anybody into my life because I live alone and have to be careful. I'm so glad to be post menopausal because I don't think under the influence of hormones. A good nurse co-worker told me back in 2005 that when hormones decrease, discernment fills in. It's so true, and I'm fine being alone. A companion would be nice but I'm not looking as I'm just fine being alone.

My only regret is NOT discovering Pastor Blake's earlier. His teachings are such a blessing.

Men who don't like women, don't like themselves! You can't treat people bad, needlessly, if you truly love yourself.

Pastor you are on point. When a woman tells a man she's not interested in him, instead of him moving on he decides that it's his job to destroy her. I've had this man run me down, threaten me, harass me, and act like a little boy. I have a right to say NO, and I'm not going to change my mind. This message should be posted on every media site in the world. Thank you Pastor.

Problem is too many people these days mistake kindness for weakness.

Men have disrespected me not because of how I dress or talk, but by not stopping them when they have said mean things to me. I learned my lesson and showed the last man who was gaslighting me and saying mean things to me the door. I told him "you're mean and I don't want you in my house any more I want you gone". (I was helping him recover in my home from colon cancer surgery to remove a cancerous tumor. He was from out of town, didn't have family, had a dog needing care, and lived on the second floor apartment. I was dating him at the time of his diagnosis and felt bad for him. I took a leave of absence to help him recover.) Even in his vulnerability he showed his mean, ugly, ungrateful self. I hardened my heart to remove him from my life. It was hard because I felt so bad for him but he was this dark presence in my home.

Love yourself and let no one disrespect you

Wow. I appreciate this message. I'll be 32 next month and all my life I've been around disrespectful men. The only one who wasn't was my step dad. Even every mate I've had disrespected me. I've just recently came across a man who doesn't give me an ounce of disrespect, ignorance or impatience. He the most calm patient and respectful man I've ever met. It's funny because it didn't happen until I started loving myself and putting myself on a pedestal. As in actually having confidence in myself. Considering myself to be valuable. I left the most difficult relationship of 7 years. I had to let go. And love me. Then I met someone who finally showed me what it's like to be treated as I should.

Wow, this is why this false man has been coming after me: 1) mother wounds 2) frustrated sexuality 3) raised by pimps, no good role models 4) bitterness and self-hatred

Yes, we women must first learn to Respect ourselves.

Once I moved out of poverty, I noticed a huge difference in relationships between men and women. While there's some misogyny everywhere, men in this environment are more focused on working with or for women instead of against them. Men also seem more capable of handling things without falling apart. The women are still strong but more feminine in this environment. I can honestly say since I received EFFECTIVE COUNSELING, stopped getting on social media and going into spaces with angry grown boys, stopped listening to offensive rap music and carry myself in a respectful way...I experience more peace in my life. I thank you for your wonderful work Pastor and continue to pray especially for the black community as a whole.🙏

That's a dangerous combination: A child in a man's body.

Personally I disrespected myself because I was sexually abused my entire childhood by grandfather. My mother was abusive as well. I learned that abuse was okay and I abused myself and disrespected myself when I was coming of age. I didn’t have role models or Jesus in my life. I dated disrespectful men and ended up in a lot of bad situations. I don’t think us women choose to disrespect ourselves I think we are taught that at a very young age specially when abuse is involved. Thanks for your message pastor.

This message hit home for me. The disrespect from my spouse has me walking away from our marriage. His words hurt and destroyed me over the years. I’m trying to heal.

Some of these men are horrible. Recently, I met a guy in Grad school and I thought he seemed so nice. He had his own business and was active in church. He was so disrespectful to me the first week we talked. I just couldn’t believe it. He made jokes all the time and when I told him to stop, he made it seem like I was the problem. When I confronted him, he said “ I like peace in my life”. It was horrible. I ended things that week.

Thank you for this divine knowledge. Some men are so twisted that they claim their harm isn't "intentional" and that they don't mean to hurt you. They are simply "sorry" for hurting you but continue to break you down repeatedly.

I refuse to let anyone diminish my womanhood, self-esteem, dignity, and purity!!! I call on God to remove the spirit of negativity that others have imposed in my direction. I call on God to bless me with Wisdom, clarity, insight, and diligence in these times of stress and disgust! There’s a filthy feminine male in my family’s home who terrorizes me, speaks negativity into my direction, false accusations, lies, manipulation, & all other forms of verbal abuse and I still press on with confidence and quality of character.