Stop doubting yourself and go after what you really, really want | Mario Lanzarotti | TEDxWilmington
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Published 2022-05-26
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"surround yourself with people who build you up" I think that was one of the best advices I'd ever received. Alternatively sadly, if you can't find those people, it's better to be alone than in the company of those who was to take a jab at you whenever possible because they have issues with themselves.
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- Self-doubt is a mental conversation in which your mind questions your ability to find a desired solution to a perceived problem 1. Share your self-doubt with the people you trust 2. Self-doubt is a call to love yourself 3. Love yourself regardless of your achievements 4. Forgive yourself for your past failures
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“On the other side of self-doubt is the person you have been looking for your entire life”. So true.
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“the pain of my past does not determine the possibility of my future.” 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
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"Everyone faces self-doubt, only those who are courageous enough to admit it will find the support, that allow them to move forward, while still facing self-doubt " 👏👏
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Stop doubting yourself and go after what you really, really want. The nex time self-doubt comes, dont fight it. Embrace it as a friend to remind you to fill your self-love tank. Not knowing how to deal with your self-doubts --- delay your dreams.
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“Acting the way you did at the time is proof you could not have acted any differently” really hit home. I think a lot about coulda woulda shoulda scenarios and feel bad about them, but everyone, including myself, is just doing their best with the info and experiences they have to pull from at any given time.
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“True freedom comes when you no longer rely on achievements to help you fall in love with who you are right now”
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"Love yourself regardless of your achievement." We all needed to hear that! 👍
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I had an interview at my dream job abroad, 30 minutes before the phone call started I began doubting myself: "What am I doing here interviewing for this job? I don't even have the skills to work there!" and with this mindset I went to the interview, already thinking very low of myself and it showed and affected my whole performance. I didn't get the job and regret it to date! Great talk, thank you! :)
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"Let go of blaming yourself, give yourself permission to express a new level of confidence, passion, and commitment".💕
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I found him incredible, and he gave us a lot of proof that self-doubt is a good way, and if we understand how we can controll it ,we win the war
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Forgiveness of ourselves and others—for both things we did and didn't do—is one of the key gateways that leads to personal freedom.
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Thought provoking, Inspiring and yet relatable speech! Thank you! 👌🙏. The points that resonated with me- beyond the underlying thread of the positive influence of self doubt in utilising it to connect head and heart. 1.What you really really want are the positive emotions those goals promise... 2.Not knowing how to deal with your self doubt delays your dreams. 3.Forgive yourself of the past mistakes because the fact that you acted shows that was the only thing you could do then!
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я сейчас сидела и рыдала от безысходности , думая что не справлюсь, что не оправдаю ожидания родителей и себя. но теперь я продолжу трудиться и не буду сомневаться, спасибо вам 🤍 вы сделали большой вклад в моё будущее
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Thank you for uploading this. I really love the phrase "everyone faces self doubt, only those who are courageous enough to admit it will find the support that allows him to move forward" This speech was wholesome.I Love it
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The pain of my past does not determine the possibility of my future. Touching my heart so deeply
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My takeaways- In striving to achieve desired goals, what you really really want are the positive emotions those goals promise. True freedom comes when you no longer rely on your achievements to fall in love with who you are right now.
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I wished I watched this sooner before but then I realized that if I didn't experience self-doubt before I wouldn't have gone through this video. Thanks for giving us this talk, now I can see my past as a lesson and not a failures I made of my younger self.
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Best TED talk so far.. Makes you think about all past failures as badge of experience and possibilities we can create for ourselves with positive and happy mind. I will be coming back to this video number of times ❤️
