Standards vs. Wounds: Are You Setting Boundaries or Sabotaging Love? | Finding The One #10

The fact that Jen can come in to gently correct and articulate in an expansive way of what Danny says, is a true divine feminine power ✨

Any time we hear Danny say : “Baby let’s talk about that” We already know he’s gonna be nothing but pure embodiment of a balanced and safe masculine. Bless you guys, you both rock🤟🏼

Jen is very down-to-earth

it's beautiful the unconditional love Danny has for Jen

I agree with Danny about purpose and our universal truth! It took me longer than 6 months but in my early 30s I could see how my wounds were attracting the wrong kinds of men for me. I went and did the work that was mine to do, kept checking in with myself as I used who I was dating as a barometer of whether I was healed (to the degree I wanted) or not. I had thought I was serious about dating this whole time and then last year a new surge arrived inside me and I really kept my standards and values, put God at the complete center of not just my life but my future relationship, and then met my now husband who also puts God first. It's been incredibly beautiful to be in a relationship where this standard / value is 100% aligned for both of us. BUT - I will say that he loves Taco Bell 😂 I hadn't eaten it in over ten years but here we are 😉

how fucking refreshing to see two actual spiritual grounded people own their desires around money and wants and needs. I would never think my best friend shouldnt get to experience the nicest hotels, organic foods, clothing they love so why would i ever do it to myself? Thank yall for being so authentic and not needing to make everything so "digestable" by everyone. Your truth is your truth and that frequency is authenticity, the more authenticity we have the more liberation we have, wahoooooo

I had to comment on this episode, specifically on the criticism you are getting for exposing your vulnerability, mind, thoughts and beliefs. From where I stand, I love all of it including the things I disagree and mostly the ones that press and push my buttons. They. make me think and reflect on my judgement, beliefs and set of thoughts. I find Jen authentic and she shows her TRUE self. Beyond her words, its the overall expression, one KNOWS she is vibrating in her true essence. I guess people are not ready to handle the truth (yeahhhh like Jack Nicholson). I started watching this episode because I was following Danny, yet when I met Jen I am connected to the podcast on Spotify because of her. It takes courage, guts and a big set of balls and uterus to show yourself in a time where fakeness is the norm. I commend both of you for doing so. Thank you for what you are creating. Blessings and may love always lead the way.

As a woman I agree with Jen regarding that intimacy goes with the ebb and flow of life. In my perspective I also make a clear distinction between making love and having sex. Having sex can be a wonderful experience between two bodies, and making love literaly is producing the energy of love (to make love) because there is deep love between two souls. Since I had an amazing soul connection mirroring, I understood, in my experience that what really turns me on is LOVE, so if there is love, woman have a higher demand of having intimacy than just having sex. Woman are love, and deep within feel if there is a soul connection when intimacy or not. That is why so many relationship after the first years go sexually cold, because the couples came together for different reasons, and there was no true soul love connection, so the femenine energy doesnt feel nurtured. There is a fantastic book from Barry Long called "Making love" , very interesting, pick up what resonates !! lots of love to Danny, Jen and little Selena !!

I 💯 get why you’re both perfect for each other and why you choose each other❣️ She’s a smart cookie! And so is he

Danny - I loved how you call people out on their own wounding and how they project this onto others! While we need to be compassionate to where one is at, people also need to be accountable for their words and their actions - including spiteful social media posts/comments. Jen - I love that you don’t agree with everything Danny says 🙊🤣 I’m so in alignment with many of the things you spoke about and alluded to in this video 🙌🏽✨ Sharing some of the ups and downs in your relationship has been so useful to hear about - as you have overcome the challenges 🥹🙌🏽 I’ve been able to use your story with clients who have felt “hopeless” or pessimistic about the likelihood of their relationship working out, when there have been speed bumps in the early stages….. Thank you 🙏🏽

It’s so hot when man wants his woman! That beginning was so funny 😆 thanks guys! ❤️

Danny, you are hilarious! "Wood." Tenting works too. 😂. I think you two are adorable. Jen is incredible, but I have to say there are many beautiful, soulful, wise, intelligent, feminine women in the world. However, you are a good man for making Jen you Queen. I look forward to seeing you in July in Palm Springs. I hope Jen is there too. Thank you for being so open.

You guys are the best ❤ I love how Jen is so herself, gets frustrated with Danny and then it passes so quickly.

Yesss… I TOTALLY understand why YOUR AMAZING SOULS chose one another … Blessed SOULS.. I feel extremely touched and in awe of the WHOLE story … 🧚🏼‍♀️🧚🏼‍♀️🦋🦋

Can't believe someone would judge or criticize Jen! She has this wonderful vibe to her. Loved the topic about age, it kinda goes both ways 🤭😆 somehow I always end up dating younger than me and everyone thinks we are same age and it's their intelligence and vibe that connected us. Yet a woman gets criticized for that in Latin America. 🤭 But hey like she said, our Souls really don't have age. 💜🙏🏻

Yes Danny... Loving yourself and honouring yourself first INSIDE to be able to GIVE and BE that OVERFLOW of LOVE to your partner / husband / wife... That's one of my standards. I can't and won't have someone that hasn't spent understood the importance of loving himself first so that he's not "looking for someone" to "full thar void" because HE HAS ALREADY DONE IT HIMSELF.. Fully knowing he contains himself fully without needing anyone BUT wanting to add to his life.

Great answer to the caller's question Jen. There are a lot of reasons why there are issues and disconnect in sex. I am writing a book on sex from a woman's perspective, that touches upon your discussion a bit. Sex is has been so convoluted that so many men, and surprisingly a lot of women think her sexuality works likes a. man, which it absolutely does not. I find most women, I think all, have had or continuously are experiencing men who never got the lesson and if you think about it, how do they (and nor do women even though we own the parts)? Majority of men and women not only did not get the lesson, but they've been misinformed and mislead . Porn and movies have ruined it. It is not even close to what women need or want.

You are a phenomenal couple, a Divine Union! ❤ Beautiful and inspiring to see. Blessings to both and your gorg Selina. 🙏🏼

I so look forward to a new episode of this podcast every monday. I have not heard anything like this before with this much rawness and authenticity. So grateful that both of you chose to do this. I am on my journey to meet my soulmate and you both give me a lot of positivity and inspiration. Sending you love and positive vibes from Dubai.💜

Love your podcast so much. Especially Jen) interesting thing about this episode — it feels like today Danny was mostly in his ego)) sorry but that’s what I feel. Maybe he was triggered by comments about Jen being “stuck up”, maybe something else happened right before recording. But at this episode his energy felt heavy. All previous episodes Danny was much more vulnerable, open and speaking from heart. Jen please continue being just Jen 🙏 just yourself. Not a teacher, not a healer, not a speaker. Just be who you are, like you have been all these 10 episodes) so beautiful, honest, raw and authentic. I think Danny sometimes loses himself in a “teacher / speaker” mode instead of just being himself, without any role, and that’s when ego comes up. Jen is absolutely beautiful and touching in her authenticity. Thank you so much guys for this amazing show. I have been on twin flame journey since June 2022, now we are married and had a little girl, she is one month younger than Selena) and we found out about my pregnancy 3 days later after you posted in Instagram about your pregnancy 😀 so our journeys with you guys are soooo similar. Also age difference, different countries (Russia and Turkey), different cultures, we used to run from each other every months 😀 and still continue mirroring each other ) so thank you so much for this show. Soooo helpful to realise that I am not crazy on this journey 🤣 and that you had and still have same stuff) lots of hugs!