When a narcissist sees you as being too strong, this is what they'll do | NPD | Narcissism

They are toddlers trapped in an adult body. They will drain you mentally,emotionally and physically.

They will accuse you of abuse for standing up for yourself...

I ignore my narcissistic husband, when he tries to berate me I put my fingers in my ears. I have moved out of the bedroom, I keep my door locked, I only speak when it’s absolutely necessary. Meanwhile I’m living my best life and preparing for divorce. I don’t think anyone should learn how to live with a narcissist. They are very sick individuals that only an act of God can heal. RUN!!!

#1 thing to keep in mind- they have amnesia when it comes to anything you've done for them & anything they've done that could be considered hurtful. Total amnesia, delusions, & confabulations are impossible to prove or disprove- that's why they function in those realms...

One of the most evil aspects of the narcissist’s behavior, is their ability to convince even those closest to you that they are kind and loving. You end up looking like a paranoid nut

A narcissist accuses you of what they are actually doing themselves.

When they see you happy and content they will covertly present as create a situation that only you know is meant to affect you in a negative way. They hate seeing people happy.

Worst abuse ever. A lesson learned the hard way.

The best way to deal with narcissists is not give them the time of day or take them seriously.

The Narcs worse nightmare is an educated empath , that can use their manipulation against them ..

He hated the fact that could make friends easily… he was a very jealous person

They will discard. If you are "too strong" it means they know that they can't get reality to reflect back that they are in control. Too strong means they can't break you or control you. They will discard you, but before that they will make attempts. If they fail they find somebody new

One thing they love to do is to dress up their malice and contempt as love and kindness and generosity. They give a whole new meaning to killing with kindness.

They try to re-write history or an event that happened to make themselves look like the victim, when in reality, it was them that caused the problem to begin with.

The one thing that a narcissist hates is when you show them proof of something they've done to others around you in front of the narcissist. That just infuriate the living hell out of them. This way, everyone sees the narcissist true colors and it's never pretty. But the narcissist has to deal with it, and you don't, so don't apologize, period a narcissist doesn't deserve one.

Being with my ex narc for the past 6 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I hired a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!

This is EXACTLY what my husband has done! High schools need to educate kids on how to identify and protect themselves from narcissist abuse.

It never stops surprising me just how many narcissists there are in the world.

I really appreciate your advice, I'm in a battle with 4 narcissistic people and I'm fighting for my grandmother's human rights

You can break free, it doesnt matter if its a parent or relative or who ever, you dont have to subject yourself to people who upset you. Stay clear.