New N-Word White Lady Just Dropped | Sad Boyz (w/ Brian David Gilbert & Ify Nwadiwe)

The absolute power move of mispronouncing the name of the only white man in the room was so wonderful

Its funny that she keeps saying "The loser theater kids that never got laid" idk if this is a just my school thing but the theater kids in my high school were all hooking up with each other all the time

Imagine being a fully grown adult and still viewing life through a lense of “nerds vs populars”

36:36 To quote Justin McElroy "The First Ammendment protects you from the government, not the Justin"

Jarvis kneeling and hugging his friend makes me believe in nontoxic masculinity, bless

"He looked like that one British dude-" "tread lightly" Jordan is absolutely hilarious dhfjgj

The discourse around "offensive language" drives me crazy because it tends to focus on offense and not on harm. Offensive language may be harmful or it may not be, but the offense itself isn't (necessarily) the harm. Using dehumanizing or violent language about a specific group of people makes it easier to normalize the violence and oppression done to them. I don't care if I offend transphobes (for example) because their offense doesn't matter to me; what matters to me is how anti-trans language leads to anti-trans legislation, discrimination and violence.

the entire magic section makes zero sense to me but i feel so much joy listening to them talking abt something they love.

Oof. Ify's point about forgiving a person today who was a cop yesterday hit me like a brick. I'm absolutely guilty of moving the goalposts to hold a grudge. And yeah, how exactly ARE you supposed to build a community strong enough to fight something as big as capitalism if nobody is good enough to help and be helped? I think I have a lot I need to think about...

I appreciate the accidental shout-out at the start :P

BDG AND IFY ?? sad boyz nah we happy boyz today

So glad to see Brian David Gibbler returning on the pod!

as a white person who grew up in a well off white community and didn't have much interaction with non-white people until late high school, i really really appreciate hearing these types of convos. i've spent the past several years unpacking racism and biases i didn't realize i had and i love the points on isolated people moving further into right wing spaces. i didn't get to hear a lot of perspectives outside of my own until recently, where i now get to surround myself with different people and creators like y'all that discuss stuff like this.

i know that i’m not necessarily the “young male audience” targeted by jarvis and jordan’s advice for young men, but as a queer trans guy, these two have made me feel comfortable in myself, without me having to subscribe to stereotypical gender roles. you reinforce my compassion first mentality in a world where men are taught not to feel and not to care. it’s wild how a lot of trans men i know are judged for their proximity to, and respect for women. it can make you feel like you need to throw away your morals to fit in and be a “real-man”. you make me feel proud about being artistic and thoughtful, instead of being upset i’m not athletic or outgoing like people around me expect and praise. so i may not be the young men you were hoping to target, but you keep me sane and on the right path, when a lot of guys out there want me to be angry and resentful. thank you for creating such a comfortable and safe environment. y’all seriously make it hard to keep my parasocial relationships in check sometimes.

The tiktok lady is literally giving Dee from Its Always Sunny, down to the weird hatred of theatre kids and obsession with high school status

the scream i let out when i saw ify was one of the guests

I cracked up at Jarvis being compassionate and saying "I know we're all men here, so-" and Jordan immediately interrupting with "SO LISTEN UP" And it was so perfectly timed comedically 😂

"those instagram parents with their beige children" FOR REALLL its become such a thing, that there's ads for beige baby toys on the disney channel now. i know its Not That Deep™ but something about it really bums me out

the whiplash of taking three tries to get away from mtg and then having a really insightful convo about alt right pipeline was wild but really well done

FYI, you don't have to be underweight in order to have anorexia. Anorexia isn't extreme weight loss, it's extreme restrictive eating. If someone isn't eating, that's unhealthy - regardless of their current weight.