Life Regrets of 90 Year Olds

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I'm near their age. I'm 81 years old. One thing that brings you happiness in old age that is hard for a young person to understand, is however my life has played out, I got the chance. By the time you're 81, you know dozens of people that died much younger, in their 30's and 40's and 50's from accidents, suicide, rare diseases, you name it. So just by being alive still, my heart fills with gratefulness that I got at least 81 years to experience life. When I was young, I would have thought that sounded pathetic, to be so easily made happy that waking up and having chats, or reading the paper, or walking outside would fill me with joy. When you're young, that's never enough. You feel like you need to leave your mark and make a big name for yourself. But a funny thing happens as you age. You live long enough to see some people you know become big shots, became rich or famous in some way, but most aren't made much happier by it, and some become lost when the notoriety fades. And then loving life for the small things starts to shift from feeling pathetic and small, to feeling wise and full. In fact, if life has taught me anything, it's that the reason we're here is to be present with the priviledge of each moment, as much as possible. Thinking about your goals tomorrow matter of course, and cherishing yesterday's memories. But more than anything, I think what has kept me healthy and happy is appreciating the priviledge of each moment. When you're a little kid, that's how you think. You appreciate recess at school, or going down a sliding board, or a walk through the woods. DON'T LOSE THAT. That, whatever that is, is the reason we're here. Being connected to small moments so strongly that they feel large. If you can do that well, you can enjoy being 80 as much as 40 or 20.

Not a single mention of money. Just family and friends and about fulfilment in other ways. Beautiful

Super interesting. In 50 years people will be saying "My biggest regret is looking at my phone so much."

My grandpa just turned 100 yrs and my grandma just had her 99th bday! They're lucid, able bodied and feisty!! Lol

I am 68. My mother in law died at 95. She told me that she regretted how much she time she spent on worrying. She often went to bed with migraines due to this. It changed me. There is so much I just let go of thanks to her wisdom. It took me years to figure out we can only control ourselves. Enjoy the moments.

I am 23 years old guy. These people seems 10times more happy and satisfied than me.

An elderly woman got onto me for not closing the blind on the plane we were on. So I closed it because she told me too. I thought she was kinda rude the way she said “ you need to close that blind”. I said yes mam sorry about that. Then as we continued in the flight, I was reading a book and she handed me a light that you can put on your book. So I realized then how sweet she was and I’m so glad I was respectful to her. Respect your elders always even if they come across as too stern or loud.

I’m in my mid 40’s and what I learn is don’t wait until retirement to do what you want now. If you like to travel. Make time to do it now. If you can try not to work so much. Enjoy your family and friends now.

I'm retiring next month. And I'm a bit nervous about how to keep up with a lot, wasn't really able to save so much, but i believe i will survive.

This is precious. Thank you for honoring the elderly. They deserve our respect.

I'm in my 70's and have a good life as a single widow. My 33 years of marriage, and numerous successful careers taught me so many life lessons. I wish I hadn't lived in so much fear, because it all worked out. My only son is having the time of his life on the road with his wife and dogs in an RV....I would like to see him more, however, I'm glad to see he's happy. I've been on my own for 20 years, happy and socializing with many friends, still wondering if a life partner will have a place in my life. More will be revealed, I'm enjoying the journey ; ~ π

Just lost my mom in her late 90s a week ago. She didn’t seem to have regrets. So glad I was able to care for her at home. Treasure them as they are suddenly gone. The house is so empty

Today we worship youth over wisdom. Our seniors are living history and should be more appreciated.

I’m listening to the 92yr old who paints, draws, has plenty social relationships, is learning French, values relationships and attributes his life to clean eating, plenty of exercise, etc. he seems like he blooms where he’s planted even tucked away in a retirement home. And the younger lady who lived on St Croix with the positive attitude.

My papa lived with me for 25 years .. we had coffee every morning and diner every night .. I lost him at 83 4 years ago his presence is missed every day .. this was so wonderful to listen to .. thank you

As a young kid I learnt from my grandma that I was lovable and was loved a lot by her, those memories and lasting impressions saved my young adult life. I grew up happy, positive and full of life just cos’ of the time I spent with my grandma and nothing else, I will remain eternally grateful for my beautiful and kind grandma, she saved me in a way I can’t describe 🙏

I am an 87 year old gay man, and having lost my life-long partner ten years ago, now live alone in a beautiful old historic house with a large garden here in Australia with close family nearby. My mantra is that I still do the cooking, washing, ironing, shopping, gardening, vacuuming, minor painting and decorating as well as singing in a choir, and entertaining friends and family every five weeks when it is my turn on a family/friends roster. Oh, and I also play piano to amuse myself. I regret that my beloved player-piano is not working these days, otherwise I would be able to boast being able to play piano concerto transcriptions, Chopin and Beethoven as well. Life has been very good to me for which I am truly grateful. I am also fortunate to have some internet skills but as with most other people, young and old, these are in a constant state of catch-up, but are enough to keep me in touch with the world. Life for the elderly nowadays is not nearly as limited as it was in the famous 'old days'.

There's something really comforting and inspiring about this 92-year old grandpa learning French and looking so happy saying "Bonjour" 💞

My grandparents will be 89 & 85 this year. 67 years of marriage. They are the perfect couple. She loves to talk. He can barely hear. LOL