♋️ Cancer: They deserve an apology, and you deserve love. Quit your sh*t.

Dear Jaimie, let me give my deepest apologies for those ‘charming’ narcissists who love being the center of attention needing ‘low-cost instant gratifications’: playing mind games being deceptive and sneaky, sending always mixed signals, manipulating, lying and cheating with third party because they need always the ‘other parent’, the backup plan, being sure they will never be abandoned or rejected inside the curative solitude. For all of these charming cowards who resent the world stealing other people’s colors to sell unsigned black paintings, putting their convenience above love, using passive-aggressive behaviours as a form of violence by giving silent treatments, all that remains is to respond with music. There are no other apologies: sorry

Yea no, i deserve the apology. Sag can blow.

Thank you🌻 This was very insightful. I need to apologize to myself for dealing with & ignoring red flags over heeding them.

Wow i gave too many apologies for my part, my expectations, resentments all to narcissists who said they learned and kept doing it again, no accountability or apology in return, had to find my own closure. My mind was stuck for a long time, my own healing moved me on. They think i owe an apology for leaving as if i abandoned them but they continued to play games, cause confusion, chaos & pain. i apologize to myself now for allowing it to continue over & over. I gave 100% above & beyond what i gave myself. I have no apologies left to give but to myself.❤

Great outcome, realizing to finally release.Better days ahead❤

Spot on. New guy. Amazing… it feels TOO good to be true. And especially now that we just randomly met someone who was the game changer for both of our careers. I have got to STOP ruining my blessings. I genuinely haven’t been with someone so charismatic and charming. It totally does make me feel insecure. So yeah… I’ve already been writing the apology in my head. 😂 I’ve already sort of but I mean i actually need him to know why I get distant cause I’m not about to lose him. ❤

I had this situation 2 years ago but with a Taurus I was very insecure and although he wasn't perfect My insecurities caused alot problems in our relationship 😢

whoa, me watching this just now felt like being an observer watching a conversation J is having with my ex. This really put things into a bit of perspective. The manner in which you spoke what needed to be spoken was well articulated and pretty cool to see as an "outsider" looking in ✨

Thank you. I needed to hear this today. ❤

I say if it wasn’t for this other man that came along after my abusive ass relationship and broke things off with me I would still be chasing a man but that break up shown me that I needed to pour the love I gave to others and relationships with men to myself and go for my dream goals and career and it’s okay to be selfish and go after my career. He made me really look at myself and I didn’t recognize myself and what my aunts have installed in me. The values, morals and self respect and to always have confidence in myself and don’t take no shit from anyone he made me realize that I wasn’t my true self! Yes, I do owe him an apology for my unhealed shit but I don’t apologize for how he treated me but it seemed like I had to be treated like that in order to wake up to snap back into my true self! I was turning into how my first baby daddy’s family behaved and I only have two for the people who judge. This made me love myself more and comfortable in being by myself with my children and being happy in my environment and going after my goals. I’m set to graduate summer of 2025, with my AS degree. Making plans towards getting my non-profit started and starting a podcast with these two amazing wonderful ladies that I’ve had many classes with. So, I thank him but don’t want him to have a big head or think he had a hand in my success you know how people be/act.. ❤ I thank God everyday for placing that man in my life at that time of my lowest to help me build my strength back up! Thanks Jamie because we never take accountability for our shit and just blame the other person and not seeing that it takes two to fuck a relationship up and it insecurities will fuck it up every time!

Are you smoking pot 😂🌿