Dating Scene In Berlin: Why Is It Hard To Find True Love? Real Talk With Locals | The Movement Hub

The problem with social media is that people think there is always someone better out there and that’s why it is very difficult. You are never treated as a catch, despite having a lot to offer.

I am based in Berlin and I think it is extremely easy to meet new people, go on dates, and have a good time. For those who are also new in the city, going out on dates is a good way to explore the districts and get to know bars and cool places. The problem I see with the dating scene in Berlin is that a lot of people have mental health issues and instead of going to therapy, they go on dating apps. Also, a lot of people after moving here, went out on dates with an open heart to genuinely find someone but after 3 or 4 ghosts, people think "Well, I also was ghosted, so from now on I also don't care anymore" and everybody starts looking at people as "discardable things". This probably has nothing to do with Berlin but with the dating app culture. From what I know, my friends back home (Portugal) also struggle a lot with dating and they live in small towns. Perhaps the problem is due to dating apps and social media. People have so many options that it seems impossible for someone to commit (fear of missing out). It is called "The Paradox of Choices".

As a German, I would never date someone who voluntarily decided to live in Berlin.

Dating in nowadays its almost impossible. Congarts to narcissistic social media and government you made it 👏

The guy holding the dog said it all.

0:55 that’s an international problem it’s not only in Berlin 😢 dating apps are a cancer spread worldwide, each person in this video seems to be nice and genuine, I wish they'll all find their soulmate in 202

it's not just Berlin, these problems are common all over the US and Europe

The chap with the poodle comes across as genuine and sweet. He's got a healthy attitude to relationships, it must be difficult when the dating scene is not conducive to such attitudes. Hope he finds someone who is on his wavelength 😊

I'm 27 and have never dated or had intimacy in Germany. I was too busy with university, family, and sports. It is hard to find a partner who appreciates your existence.

Seems the 'Plague of Hookup' is a universal problem for most big metropolitan city. It's nearly impossible dating normally

Why it‘s hard to find real commitment? For a multitude of reasons. Globalization, social media - but I’d say one of the most important ones is that everybody wants to be independent these days. Men and women! Society desperately conditioned itself to not be reliant on anyone directly anymore, everybody wants to do their own thing. And therefore we get the results we (or the generations before us for that matter) were asking for, simple as that..

I found my love in Berlin. We are happy together. Don‘t give up!!

,,Like lots of Egos nowadays“

I live in Potsdam next to Berlin and after my last break up I dated quite a lot. I quickly realized how superficial and ego-driven the whole thing is. I remember: One of my first Berlin Dates "taughted" me, what Situationships are :D If you wanna have deep connections, Berlin is truly a struggle. Do not date there 😂

I was born in Berlin and most of my friends were also born here. Most of them are in serious relationships. The problem with Berlin is there are so many tourists and that a lot of people who move here don‘t plan to stay here for long, so they‘re only looking for casual things.

i call Berlin borderline city since over 20 years already. and it gets worse and worse daily. i just moved here to work as a relationshipcoach. what an irony.

The social engineers changed the system without tests. So the change did not work, and there is no backout strategy.

I like how the guy in a brown coat speaks about trying. People nowadays change partners thinking it gets better, but not

Found my husband in Berlin on tinder 😂 after 5 Date 🎉🎉🎉 got married after 11 months now is five years together still happy everyday ❤❤❤

I’ve never really participated in the hookup culture cause of low self esteem but I would rather have random hookups than take someone serious who lived the hook up life and now wants a safety net that just seems like volunteering to be a sucker.