13 Harsh Truths About Men I'd Share If You Were My Daughter

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I vote "yes" for more imaginary daughter advice videos.

"Go slow but be quick to leave when he shows he's bad for you" we don’t do this enough

“Most men do not change.” I want to remember that.

this assures me that I'm truly in a green flag healthy ass relationship😭😭❤

Number 14: If there is any sign of abuse, like uncontrolled anger, disrespect, put-down's, etc. RUN!! Don't call him out on it. Just leave (safely) and block him. All abuse starts small and escalates. It won't get better, it's not your fault, and you can't fix him!!

NEVER, ever chase a man! The right one won’t run. 👍

“It’s not your primary job to make it go anywhere. Your BIGGEST job is to see if it CAN go somewhere.” Fantastic

As a 23 yo woman who never had a dad I am crying

I teared up when he said "you are amazing"  My father never told me that. thank you

The only things is, I was a secure high value woman until I met the wrong man who destroyed everything I built in myself. Every woman needs to listen to this video. ❤

I had a first date which went so badly, I paid the whole bill after the gentleman excused himself to the bathroom. He came back and continued to tell me how I should be conducting myself, and that I was not to speak to him as an equal, because men are the head of the family. (We weren't related. We had no kids together.) I kept it cool, smiled, listened attentively for the next half hour or so. At the end of the meal, he asked for the check and the waitress informed him that 'the lady has already paid.' He lost it. In public. It was amazing. It was the most enjoyment I'd gotten out of that date the entire night. No regrets. Best $80.00 I've ever spent on a guy I wasn't related to. 10/10 recommend.

Honestly, I'm a guy, and I really needed to hear this advice, too. I didn't have good mentors growing up, so I had very low self-esteem and would settle for anyone who gave me any kind of attention, even if that attention was predatory and abusive in nature. I was an easy target for those with bad intentions and ended up in some unhealthy relationships that made my mental health deteriorate even more. If my parents told me all the things you mentioned in your video, my life would have been so different, and it would have saved me from a lot of pain and heartache.

This imaginary dad is better than many dads out there.

I wrote the 13 Harsh Truths in my journal so I won’t forgot. Thank you dear imaginary dad.

#12: It is not your job to get him to like you or make the relationship work. SOOO many women do this, resulting in many men getting all their needs perpetually met, just wandering from woman to woman. I've had men test me like that on the first date. They bail straight away after realizing I'm not a Pleaser. If it's not 50/50, it's not worth it to me.

12. When you call out his bs, be sure to do it in the moment it happens- instead of keeping it to yourself forever. I made the mistake of holding things I didnt like to myself until he made me mad for another reason and it would make me look like the silly one for "bringing unrelated" things up

When a guy says you can do better than me, run! He's telling on himself

The funny thing is, i chose the guy i was not as attracted to because he seemed like a great guy. And he was really nice for a while before being literally abusive and emotionally manipulative. After that, i decided that i cant even trust a guy's actions anymore. He was lovely, until he wasnt. My number one advice for all women and girls out there is to always ALWAYS trust your gut. Especially if it's usually right. My gut kept telling me he was a red flag and i kept picking up on very subtle signs he was a red flag but i convinced myself i was overanalysing everything. Words and actions can be misleading. Your gut is right 9 times out of 10.

During the first date with my partner we had a (jokingly) argument over who would pay. I told him I had invited, so i should pay, he insisted I was "way above his league" and he should pay as "compensation" for my time. We ended up splitting the bill. Lovely man, terribly low self esteem