When an Empath Is Angry, These Are 10 Cruel Ways Empaths Will Do To Narcissists | NPD | Narcissism

The Narcissist's biggest mistake is thinking their empath victim is weak. The narcissist fatal act is to call the empath weak. What follows is not cruel, it is self defense against an emotional felon.

Sometimes they underestimate the strength of their victim because the victim is a good person.

No weapon formed against me will prosper 🙏 ✨️.

Narcissists don't respect boundaries period

The worst part about these kinds of relationships is that you're most likely already trapped in by someone before realizing what's happening. This is something that should be spoken about in our highschools.

Good way to fight enemies is using their own weapons against them.

Nonchalant shoulder shrug saved my life.

This is exactly what I did 16 mos ago. She may be my daughter, but I’m not going to tolerate her cruel backstabbing treatment. I’m moving on with my life. I hope if you are in a relationship, or if it’s a close family member, that is a Narcissist, Sociopath, or Psychopath. Don’t allow them to do this to you. Remove them from your life. Learn to recognize their tactics. Do not wait til you are older, after you’ve wasted most of your life, do it now ! Do it for yourself !! You deserve to be loved, respected, & Cared about !

1. Don’t get tangled up in their battles, NARCs thrive on strife turmoil and high emotions and someone to act as a punching bag for their deep seated self-hatred and guilt. This is narc supply and if their target goes away they’ll not have a punching bag any longer. 2. Show no interests in their theatrics, they hunger for attention and power dynamics, control and manipulation to sway my thinking. Make them feel unimportant and be happy and enjoy my life. Not interested in theatrics. 3. Confront them publicly. Narcs are masters at manipulation and to deceive others to feel superior to conceal their incompetence, exposing their lies and exaggerations to friends and colleagues. Test them on their true natures. Show their flaws and errors in plain view. 4. Reject their emotions and narrative. Refuse their lies and tactics. I see through the lies and won’t allow manipulation. I will longer accept your lies and sick twisted mind game. 5. Display disgust and scorn towards them. Don’t allow their criticism or devaluation of others. Do not allow them to demean or diminish me taking a stand of boundary setting. 6. Don’t take them seriously, they have a mental disorder and cannot logically function on their own. Disregarding and disempowering their influence. Don’t give the attention they crave. Refuse to acknowledge their exaggerations and belittling of others and won’t impress or impact me. Not falling for her embellishments and exaggerations any longer. 7. Speak the ugly truth. Narcs possess a vulnerable self-image and are incredibly manipulative. Speak the truth and this is something that they do not like and it contradicts their inflated self-worth. See the truth in your own conduct and stop bullying others. 8. See beyond the façade. Narcs rely on their fabricated self-image to sustain their ego, impacts their delicate insufficient and inadequate she genuinely is. False perception of self and shows I discern the truth and the lies won’t work any longer to maintain the façade presented for years. 9. Refuse to acknowledge them. Declining to recognize them is a commanding technique to disempower a Narc. Give no attention and refuse to feed into their narcissism. Makes them insane and depletes their power. Silence can be unsettling but is crucial to persevere. 10. Moving on and letting go. Sever all ties on all levels. You have no value to me any longer. This is essential for my own well-being. I’ve given all I can and you’ve taken so much from me.

Finally, someone is Teaching us how to stand for ourselves and how to disempower the narcisist! Thank you.

Thanks for the video, one thing is with a narcissist they underestimated the power a empath has and once you know you go you get out and you stay out 🙏

The best way to handle the narc is to give them nothing- no data points for judgements. And they particularly hate when they realise that you don't require their authenticity or anyone else's.

I seem to attract narcissists, the word "no", works wonders.

What drove my mother crazy was when she would go off on a rant about her scapegoat du jour , I would say something like, " I really like her. She was very helpful when I started my last job." I also got good at pre-empting her public rants by introducing one of her talking points into a conversation in a group setting , except I would state the opposite of her take on it, ie., she would go on public rants about how much she disliked Mexican food, but before she could get started, I would mention eating at a Mexican restaurant and go on about how good the food was. Of course, someone else would want to tell about his/her favorite Mexican restaurant and it would go from there in a direction that Mother's rants about disliking Mexican food would just get her blank stares if she tried to bring it up.

The best advise ever. Exactly took me 20 yrs to do what you just described, but I did achieve the perfect outcome. Thank you for the best advice ever needed.

I was able to deal with my ex husband whom I was married to for 20 years, he is a dentist and narcissist. When I decided I no longer could tolerate his behavior I did everything in this video. In my opinion narcissistic people are going to lose up against an empath.

all narc victims are good and nice person.. not perfectly good.. but also kind/soft hearted person and understanding.

Thanks for the information is insightful, practical and relevant ! Knowledge is power. In a strange way sometimes it takes monsters like this people to bring out the warrior in you , I’m sending thoughts of confort and strength to the people going or have gone thru this and are now are able to STAND STRONG ! Continue to move forward people ❤

My narcissist's biggest mistake was thinking she was smarter than me. She was good at reading people, gaslighting and manipulation but she was still dumber than a box of rocks. If she was smarter than me, why am I still here and she's dead? Not the victory I wanted but this is what got me through it and able to resist being gaslit. 1.) When my gut screamed at me the loudest that something was wrong, I listened to it and it served me well. 2.) I answered this rhetorical question everyday. "What is most important to me?" Answering that question allowed me to hold on to my sense of worth and counter the harmful effects of gaslighting. What kind of person would I be if I didn't share it for others to benefit?

The simplest thing to do is don't even acknowledge their presence in the room. Don't even look in their direction and they'll crumble. Did this to one of my bullies after years of being treated like trash, and surprisingly they now have nothing to say, because I'm not even paying attention anyway. 😂