why I kept my pregnancy private, why I gave birth in Singapore, and other questions answered lol

i love that you are protecting your child's identity and her choice. better safe than sorry.

The way you’ve explained as to why parents must not expose a child’s face, is beautiful. People don’t always understand. Thank you for letting people know a mum’s worst fear!

the last answer was the most heart breaking-ly honest reason. When I would write articles on cyber security, I came across a topic that I had to research about for my article. It was on how baby cams were being misused and hacked to put the clips on dark web sites, for pedophiles to access. Never knew much about this before I made my research and it shattered me for a whole week. world could be a shitty place, we must take our cautions.

its so fun to listen to her , im only 20 and yet listening through the entire video just cus its so calming to listen to her

All the answers were so sane, socially contextualised and aware. Great

I agree with your last answer 100%. I use to watch a lot of family channels before my pregnancy, but now that I am a mother to a 4 month old, I completely understand the need to be protective towards our child. I will never be comfortable sharing his pictures online even if my account is private. I respect your decision as a content creator! Enjoy those 3 month milestones 😊

It’s great you brought up the point about social media and kids. We don’t need to share so much of our personal information willingly and freely. Your point on the safety aspect is so so important. We don’t live in a very safe and secure environment and our child’s safety is of prime importance

Protecting the privacy of your kid is very important and i agree with you completely. I've seen certain other "parents" who has every second of their child's life from birth uploaded to social media. And I've heard their explanation as that they want to document their child's every moment. Which is completely understandable but that doesnt have to be documented publicly. Its not safe for your kids considering how the internet is a scary place and we dont know what kind people are watching videos behind the safety of the anonymity. Documenting your kids life shouldn't be on social media, it doesnt have to public or for the entire world to see. I'm glad you decided to protect the privacy of your child. Its a great decision that many people/influencers need to understand. Using your child for views is not nice. There are things that should stay private in everyone's life, but at this time of the internet thats a alien topic to many people. Everything doesn't have to be on the internet.

wow i already liked your content but this video made me fall in love with you. agree with everything you said about family channels and mommy vloggers. please dont feel pressured to share or post your daughter because we already love your videos. i think children should be left to be children and they should only be posted until they have the mental capacity to consent and say “Yes, i want my videos on a public platform, i dont mind what happens”. whether that be at 16 years or 19

You made some valid points there @Satshya 👌🏼 Spoke like a wise human and not the influencer people expect you to be all the time. Much respect and love ❤

Your clarity of thought is pure gold if you ask me ❤

No matter how many people accept or not but after marriage staying with husband and facing any challenges will make the couple grow better and understand better. Also it makes men understand everything that a women faces.

Hey, firstly congratulations! My heartiest wishes to and your family and loads of blessings for your cutie pie. I have been following your channel for a while and I had shifted to Singapore nearly the same time as you to study, work and live with my husband. Though, I absolutely love all of your content which is meaningful sensible and superrrr funny, this particular video made me feel like expressing my thoughts about the content of the video. I feel like you have been very very impactful with what you have said about protecting the privacy of your child and have put your thoughts very intelligently together, so that people like me (who does not have a kid) can understand the larger picture of what it can turn out to be. Before watching this video I had never really thought about sharing info about kids much and I probably would have shared without understanding the repercussions fully. But you made me understand with few but efficient explanations. it was super enlightening. Thanks and all the very best for your future ahead. ❤

That article was really scary to read! I completely agree with your thought. Love the content🧡

Respect for you has grown 1000 times on your decision to not reveal ur pregnancy

Thanks for being sooo real!! this my first full video I have seen of yours and you not wanting to show your child... I have the same reasons... There was an investigator too that exposed this child "bad stuff" ring almost of sorts and things he told...man it chilled my blood...So yes..Amazing thing you a doing for your kid!!

The last answer was so thoughtful and scary in a way ( I hope you are getting it). Very well said ❤

Last answer. Nobody would have thought so deeply. Thanks for that.❤

Omg I really appreciate the way you explained your points about the child’s privacy!!!!❤

you are really wise! i was literally nodding w you at the points in the end! love your perspective, so fresh yet creates a huge standard for social media! 💗💗💯