3 Signs God is Trying to Remove Someone from Your Life

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SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO MAKE DECISIONS THAT WILL HURT YOUR HEART BUT WILL HEAL YOUR SOUL.

1.Just walk away and let the healing process begin. 2.Forgive yourself for trusting them. 3.Learn a lesson from this trauma. Life is way too precious to waste on toxic people. Make your life beautiful again 😊

My life has changed completely for the better after I humbly knelt and cried saying " I am sorry Almighty Father for being stubborn trying to fix a relationship that gives me grief and stress. Your will not mine" ❤

This is what happened to me. I set boundaries and suddenly I was the bad guy.

God has removed them all from my life,including narc family. I cried and asked God if he wanted me to cut my family off, he responded to me with saying yes my child and forgive them and love them from a distance. It is absolutely one of the best decisions I've ever made in my entire life.

Absolutely do not let anyone project their fears,worries,and insecurities onto you.

1.Never trust anyone that tries to convince you of who they are! 2. Don't explain your own sense of character, because they'll try to mirror you. 3. Cherish your privacy. They'll want to hear every dirty detail about your life. They cannot relate, and DO NOT HAVE THE ABILITY TO EMPATHIZE. Everything you say will be held against you. 4. Don't gossip! Period! 5. Don't let anyone manipulate your time with family and friends. 6. Don't give second chances after the first sign of disrespect. 7. Don't ever accept passive aggressive comments as being a joke. They purposely try to provoke negative reactions and emotions. 8. Don't break prior arrangements, obligations or plans with friends and family to spend time with a new, love interest . They will try to isolate you from any support system. 9. Keep your friends, family and job separate from a new love interest until after they have, undeniably proven themselves to be loyal and trustworthy. They CAN and WILL turn people you love against you. 10. Be aware of how they talk about their own family and friends. Are they painting them in a negative light? Remember, their friends and family will be their flying monkeys. 11. Don't be flattered by jealousy, that's a control tactic. 12. Talking about exes should be a deal breaker. That's inappropriate, when starting a new relationship. The past should stay in the past and no one needs "validation" from a personal relationship that didn't work out, it creates insecurities and triangulation. Emotionally mature people heal and move on. 13. If you haven't healed from a prior relationship, don't date until you have rebuilt a solid sense of self and independence. Rebounds aren't fair for anyone involved and it just leads to codependency. I've been a narc magnet my whole life and I've finally had enough of being a people pleaser. The healing process and finding yourself again is more rewarding than trying to mold yourself into being someone's ideal of who and how you should be for them.

I went No Contact w my Toxic Abusive Mother and Enabling Father and Sister! I feel like I escaped from Hell. I prayed and Jesus told me,”You aren’t expected to Respect anyone who’s abusing you!” 🙏

God isn’t ever trying to remove someone from our lives, he’s asking us to do it

It's hard to break away a friendship if they are the only friend you have.but you know you have to break away from the friendship. We need to relize that Jesus is our friend

47 years in marriage, separated for 9 of those years, reconciled & now regret of doing so. I’m almost ready to leave again & praying for strength & wisdom that I can only receive from my Lord & Savior Jesus Christ🙏💕

I'm so thankful God removed me from an awful situation Thank you JESUS AMEN ❤

4:47 They’re poisoning your garden. 6:54 Shift in Feelings 8:06 Decision-making out of emotion

My last husband was physically abusive after going to Bible school to become a pastor. It took me a year to be able to leave and save myself after I ended up in the ER after back surgery he strangled me but I’m a handicap disabled person who has no way to take care of myself. I finally put God in charge of my life and trusted in God to make a way for me. God opened up doors everywhere for me to be able to find s as place to live, food to eat and finances to pay bills. I’m not in such a good place physically and emotionally. God did it all and I live for God and put every moment in my life in His hands. Faith and trust in God saved my life in more than one way

It is easy to see flaws in others, while ignoring our own, so self-examination is critical. Sin is what makes people toxic.

I have found out if you give people a little time they will show their true colors. A person can't pretend to be a truly loving kind person but for so long. What's buried deep in the heart and soul of a man or woman will eventually have to come spewing out. It's impossible to be good and bad. You are either one or the other.

Yes, if you are genuinely trusting God with your relationships, He will make it clear what you need to do. I was married to a truly abusive man who, despite my commitment to honoring my marriage vows and loving him harder & harder, became worse instead of better. One day I was lamenting in prayer, "Lord, I can't trust him." God's response to my heart: "I know you don't trust HIM. Trust *ME*." I had been putting every humanly possible effort into my relationship, but I hadn't put it 100% into God's hands in surrender to His will and plan. When I did that, God clearly and immediately began orchestrating events which created a path to my (and my children's) future safety and freedom from abuse.

Please pay attention! I lived this! This is real. Anytime you stay with someone because you feel as though they can do MORE than God, that is a sign. When you feel as though you can survive without God but not without them, that is not good. Proverbs 3:5&6 became my theme when I had to WALK AWAY. I pray that for some of you, God will close every door keeping you attached to that person til you have NO choice but to break ties!!!!!!!

People do not like it when you set boundaries.