7 Things You Must Never Do With a Narcissist

"A narcissist's accusations are their confessions." Perfect!

They will look a gift horse in the mouth.They will take kindness as weakness.When you show them generosity they will want more whilst shamelessly never returning the favour.

Never stay with one. You will have a horrible life.

This video is why I treat my narcissistic husband as an annoying roommate. A roommate doesn't need to know my business!

A narcissist thinks: Their money is their money, My money is their money, My family's money is their money, and The entire world's money is their money.

1. Financially, partnership. My boss , the narc, is a financial advisor (aka crook)! 2. Believe opposite of what they say . (LIARS) 3. DO NOT go to therapy with them. It won't change them 4. Do not believe their hopeless hope of change. 5. Do not believe the nasty names they call you. 6. Do not give them access to your personal life. (My boss, Narc, wanted me available evenings and weekends! I said no. He fired me!) 7. Sunk cost. ( It has only been 5 days since I was fired and already my health is improved. I am happier and more at peace.I am sleeping better! worth it . I will find another job.)

"Never go on vacation with them" instantly came to my mind when I saw the title. They are heavily traumatic times instead.

"Think the worst and you'll be certain" is the motto that always works with a narcissist.

There are many different signs. These include spending time on phone that was not spent previously, withholding sex from you, withdrawing in communication with you, agitation or anger over Petty stuff or making up situations to get angry or agitated over, lying, being secretive in any way, randomly spending more time caring for and pampering oneself such as putting on makeup or wearing cologne or coloring hair etc. Any type of changed behavior that is not aimed at pleasing or benefiting your relationship. With all of that though, follow your gut. your gut is telling you that something isn't right and it's telling you that this could or is happening, therefore listen to it. Just Free yourself from all of it! Run and don't look back. Go 100% no contact. The mental and emotional abuse is not okay at all! Do not bring anything up to her. Don't try to rationalize or have a conversation about anything. Don't let her know that you know she's in narcissist. All of that can cause a narcissistic rage. If you have not yet witnessed one of those just trust me that you don't want to! A narcissistic rage is beyond any rage I have ever seen or witnessed in my entire life. I am an army combat veteran and served front lines for a year and afghanistan. I have abuse going back from as long as I can remember, the first time in my personal memory is 2 years old. With everything I have been involved in, and my rape, other sexual abuse, their physical abuse, etc in narcissistic rage is by far the worst! If you need to contact your local police department and start a new contact order. No one can protect you like you can! free yourself from it all and move forward in your life. The minute you run and go no contact is the minute your life begins again. If need be seek out professional help. Therapy is the best thing I did for myself. The best gift I gave to me! The abuse is so deep and overwhelming that having a professional guide you through the steps of the healing process is extremely beneficial! Just remember, there is great strength in asking for help. There is great lack and strength or no strength at all in putting on a mask and hiding behind the opinions of society and pretending that you are okay! As human beings we all witness A Time In our lives where we are not okay! Those that heal, move past, and move forward, and have a brighter future are those who ask for help and do the work that is needed through the help! I'm so sorry you are going through this and I wish you the very best! Good luck! Always remember that you are stronger than you believe you are, you are worthy and deserving of better and always, and you are enough just the way you are and who you are today! Take this time for you! Get yourself again. Fix that meal that you're all time favorite, rent that movie you've been wanting to see, have a guys night out with your best friends, remodel a room in your home, go purchase that item you've been wanting to for so long, just do for yourself! Self-acceptance, self-love, and being able to forgive yourself is far more important than what anyone else can give to you! Believe in who you are! You deserve nothing less than that! You're not alone! Feel free to tag me in any other questions that you have! I'll help if I can. Additionally you can hire a cyber expert to help you get remote access to their phone so you can track them and monitor all of their activities without them knowing. You may locate the top cyber specialists locally at [email protected] where you can engage a well-trained professional to assist you..........

Loaned small amount to narc, he made one payment and threw a tantrum screaming yelling he didn't want to pay me back....Keep shinning the Light Bright Danish😊👍👍👍👍❤❤❤❤❤....this was a 52yr old man....

Always expect the worst from a narcissist. Never believe a word they say but pay attention to what they do. They hate being exposed because it reveals how horrible they really are and don't want people to know. Keep away from them. This video is spot on, Danish! 🎯

My narcissistic husband just spent almost all my inheritance on a new pickup truck and fishing boat for himself. Joint bank accounts are not a good idea with a narcissist!!!

This is spot on and so helpful. Narcissists are so obsessed with money that they can't wait to get their hands on other people's by all means, they are not to be trusted at all, they are liars, traitors and thieves. Never show any weakness to them and avoid any exposure revealing information about yourself because they are hungry for anything to use it against you. Keep strong and safe. Thank you, Danish 🙏🏻💜

Their lies are huge and convincing!

My narcissist ex and I had 5 years of relationship therapy, which didn't help at all . He said : “ I thought the therapy was only just for you “ 😢 It was a torture chamber indeed …. Don’t ever go in there !!

I married one unknowingly. I lasted 10 months and ran. before I ran I started smelling a rat. and quickly began closing any financial openings. and planned my escape. he drug the divorce on for a year. did everything possible to not leave my home. he left the evening before I brought in law enforcement.

Everything you said is spot on. Narcisists are driven by evil forces and they bring drama, trauma, chaos and destruction everywhere they go and in everything they do. We must have nothing to do with evil. Thank you Danish 😊 God bless you ❤

I did "sunk cost" for a little while, but I finally chalked up the loss and moved on. Was it easy? Fk no. Am I glad that I moved on? Only every waking moment of my life! 🎉 Thank you for another great episode, Danish 🎉

Spot on!My Narc adoptive brother took my entire parent’s Estate.I lost everything including my School Reports!

A certain family member let the narcissist be on the title to his house. The day they were supposed to move in together she threw a fit over something stupid and tried to file a false police report, he said maybe it’s not a good idea for her to move in, and she threatened that she would make him have to sell the house. Definitely don’t do anything financially with a narcissist or let them know where your finances are. Tell them nothing!