Narcissistic Father or Mother: Bizarre Things they Think You OWE Them
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As a caregiver, i get so angry at our society at large for romanticizing caring for aging parents, especially if the parents are toxic parents.
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My mother thought I owed her my life so she stole it from me. I was an extension of her. When I tried to assert myself I was punished.
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Finally went no contact with my mother at 61. I am as concerned with her old age as she was/is concerned with my abusive childhood.
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Am i the only one or does everyone in the comments find so much peace knowing you are not the only one that has parents that are so toxic. I had to cut off my Mom and Step Dad because they get so much pleasure in blaming me for every family mistake!
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I didn't go my abusive father's funeral. He did enough damage.
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Parents act like a stork dropped a baby on their doorstep in a rain storm one night, and after some deliberation, they both decided out of the goodness of their hearts that they shouldn't just let it die out there by morning.
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1. feel guilt for being born 2. take care of them 3. dont be "selfish" 4. give them total control 5. your time
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He owes me a childhood, thankfully I can start again at 42
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If they ever say "you were a mistake" I would quickly just quip back with "it's nice to finally hear you own up to one of your mistakes" 🤣
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Anyone else hear: What would the neighbors think? 😂
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Recovering from narcissists is not easy becasue you never feel like your life is your own. You are trained from birth to put others needs ahead of your own and also trained never to set boundaries. So you grow up becoming servents to toxic people that recognize your vulnerability. I feel like so much of my life has been wasted. I am healing with time. Its hard work but worth it.
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The best thing I think you can do with narc parents is agree with them for everything but secretly plan your escape.
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Respond logically, don’t react emotionally.
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My mother went ape s… crazy when I moved out at 26. She’d wanted me to stay with her forever as a barrier between her and my father. She taught me all men are awful and told me often to never get married. She’s long gone now and my hubby and I are celebrating 44 years. So glad I walked out
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My mother is dying of cancer. I have been communicating with her more because her time is limited. Bad idea! She’s come at me with all the same toxic “something is wrong with you! You’re mentally ill”. Ive been a wreck. I’ve gone back to no contact. I should have never gone back to her. It kills me. I’ll never be ok for her. The only cure for this pain is to stay away from her. That’s what I’ve found.
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I had to literally move 500 miles away to protect my peace and my children's peace from my selfish mother.
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You don't get a trophy for doing the bare minimum the law requires to keep your children alive.😅😅😅
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Both of my parents have passed. I have never visited their graves. It's never even been a serious consideration. I hope for their peace. And most importantly, my peace.
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Before I went no contact with my mother she would say some BS thing attempting to control me by tossing a guilt/ shame bomb, I would just say calmly, "You can think that if you want to." She never had a reply. Once, I started to figure all of this out it became much easier to not fall for the trap. Now I see her for what she is jealous and manipulative.
