The purpose of homos (why we’re here)

My personal view on that is that we as homos are sort of the middle path between (straight) men and women, and our purpose is to maintain balance between masculine and feminine energies, as we embody both of them. As men, we are able to understand masculine viewpoint, but at the same time, as GAY men we often find it easy to understand the feminine viewpoint as well.

Was genuinely unsure at first if this was about the genus or homosexual folks

This is an important starting point. We definitely have purpose. It gets disrupted by the demands of surviving heterodominated childhood and adolescence. Once we emerge from that hell, we come to understand our purpose. And the first task is to recognize how strong we are for having survived that. Then it becomes an obligation to challenge the hetocracy at every turn. It's about exploring Gaymen loving Gaymen. We are rising.

The native Americans considered people who were between genders as Shaman and were called burdash (Chinook Wawa) from the French Canadian word burdache (hermaphrodite). The burdach were considered people that existed between the physical and spiritual world and were not defined within the parameters of the gender dichotomy that Christian/Jewish/Moslem European and Middle Eastern religion and society defined as the 'correct' way. I, personally, feel that I am somehow able to see into the depths or essences of the world where most people only see the surface, and so do you. Thanks for the video.

I'm 81 years old and coming to the end of my life. The pain I have experienced has been from other Homos. This has bothered me all my life. I don't fit in with any "gay community". Why do other gay men hate me? I would love to see someone address this subject. I am sure there are other Homos just like me who are out there standing in the dark. YOU would be the perfect man to take this issue on. On the other hand, yes I am a healer and "the family Shaman". But I am at odds with Homos against Homos.

Im 64 years of age , and i have always identified as gay. As a young boy i felt attraction to my own gender. I have never pretended to be straight as sadly some gay men do. But it hasnt been easy if i look back over the years. Especially in my teen years , when i felt so alone. I couldnt be myself. That led to alot of pain. Also the negative hateful experiences i had inflicted on me by straights. Unfortunately alot of gay men go through or get stuck in self loathing. And we also experience internalized homophobia. I live a quiet life today , i am not interested in a relationship or any unhealthy sexual connection with another man. I feel free , after years of abusing myself with alcohol. I have 8 years of sobriety now. I was deeply traumatized in the past which led me into a long battle with alcoholism. In my time period of sobriety im finding me. I love my life now. I have respect for myself and have set boundaries. I look after my welfare and well-being. I have a relationship with the good lord. I have handed my life over , and repented for my sins. This has brought me peace of mind. It works for me. I still have same sex attraction , but i keep to myself. Interesting listening to what you said. From Carl in NZ.

It's been scientifically proven that homosexuals simply exist to help their tribe to thrive. Tribes are the primordial state for humans to coexist and have been for dozens of thousands of years. Homosexual people have evolved to offer the interconnection between male and female roles. Homosexual people won't reproduce as easily as heterosexual people, so they help the tribe by caring for the ones that already exist. Gay males have been reportedly been less aggressive and violent than straight males. More willing to help the women of the tribe to cook, clean, and raise children. While female homosexuals grow together without the surveillance of an aggressive male that would most definitely just want to have coitus with them. Homosexuals exist to truly enjoy life, enjoy food, and explore art as paintings, songs, and stories. Homosexual people have always been crucial for the tribe's existence. Just like the experience of the elders, the competitiveness of the males fighting for the attention of a female, or just hunting and doing the hard physical work with their peers. While straight women will always remain as a force of nurturing and logical thinking. That's been repeated over and over across multiple cultures and eras. The same pattern persists: the tribe only survives if everyone respects each other and learns their value.

I have always felt that gay folks all have a special power and our job is to discover what it is and then use it.

This is FANTASTIC ! ! ! I didn't have children, but I was the male version of Auntie Mame and Dolly Levi for all of my nieces and nephews! We had a ball and they still remember those times from many years ago. I believe we all grew from this unique set of circumstances.

Keep on, keeping on. Your voice has value and clarity ... a welcome healing 528 hz bell of reason! Thank you!!!

We're here, because Mother Nature has a great sense of humour....

Thank you. Please continue your quest. You're exploring insights that are VERY NEEDED. ❤

I am 82 years old. And Your message goes completely conform with my experiences.

Gays are all over the creative world. And in high places. And the caring world…

What a beautiful message thank you brother 🙏🏼

Thank you, Rio. 💙🫶🏻💞

As a homosexual with bisexual tendencies, this hits a great point.

I came to the exact same conclusion a few months ago. I'm so happy to know other homos feel the same about our unique pain, which brings such a powerful perspective on existence. Thanks for voicing out this beautiful message

I was fortunate to be born into a family that was not super religious so I didn't have all that baggage to sort through as a young boy. I didn't like being different. I definitely wanted to be like everyone else! But then I began to release that I was not going to be able to change and that made me angry for a bit. Why was I the only one going through this? Why isn't there anyone who can help me understand this? But eventually I began to see it as an advantage. It gave me an objective outlook on life. I could see that my friends were following a pre mapped destiny. I on the other hand was free to roam the horizon and see what lay ahead. There was no pre mapped destiny for me. I mean, people were definitely assuming I would eventually get married have children buy a house etc. But I knew that didn't have to be my future. I quickly learned that everything operates on how you interact with others and basic rules of society. In other words, it was really easy to manipulate. I was also fortunate to come of age in the 70's so I didn't have to be as closeted as homos in the 50's. Anyway, I eventually saw it as a super power! I used to get upset when homos would adopt the heterosexual norm of adopting kids and moving to the suburbs. But now I see that it's a conscious choice and not necessarily a social construct being forced on us. And I'm kind of excited to see the positive influence homos will bring to families and child rearing as a result.

I know that I'm here to help others, to make people laugh and be happy about themselves. I've always felt that where there is troubles and I step in to the picture it all solved. I had to battle with myself growing up for being different but I have never ever been mocked or bullied for being gay. I love who I am. And I feel respected by everyone I've met. I don't need to change everyone that is not my purpose. My purpose is to live as happily as I can with the people suround me.