10 Best Things To Talk About On A First Date

Ask about where she's from. Ask about where she grew up. Ask about he favorite movie/tv show. Ask about what she is passionate about. Ask about her favorite places to go/travel. Ask about what she would do if she were to hit the Powerball jackpot (leads to many follow-up questions) Ask her what is on her bucket list. (It's a cheat code topic to keep the convo going) Do not talk about: -Your ex -Money -Politics -religion

You are never too old to date. Reading, exercise, faith, travel, learn something new. Never sit down and retire. Salute!

A decent way to talk about " Ex" ...." Great girl but didn't workout "...now that's a Man with good standards. Another great video brother Jeff....Salute!!!

This!!! I once was on a date and he talked about himself the whole time... he asked me one question but turned the conversation back to him. He wanted another date but I declined and respectfully told him why. I’m a good conversationalist but not showing interest in me is a major turn off. Another great video sir! Thank you! I may start sending my dates to your page! Lol

Remember when you meet her you need to establish that connection 1: give her a proper hug and greeting (establishes physical connection and makes it less awkward going forward) 2: when eating or talking look her in the eyes and sit next to her. Not across from her. (Sets the tone of proximity between you two and makes it easier to make a move) 3: gather info. Don’t spill it. Answer only what you need to and just let her talk. Then end the date slightly after or before the most climatic part. Don’t let it linger. Keep her wanting more of you. But also make sure the date is planned. Ahead of time and that hints were dropped before hand on what you were going to be doing on said date. I date with no direction isn’t a date. It’s a greeting. As a man your in charge of guiding the conversation because women typically have no game. But they sure as hell expect you to have it.

I'll probably never go on another first date ever again but gotta watch the video and give a thumbs up 👍👌👏

So, I can’t tell her I speak fluent Klingon on the first date ?😂 seriously , I feel you on this one. My wife and I had a great first date and we just talked about what we did in our spare time.... salute✊🏽

Style OG, I would just like to take this time to let you know that you are a great epitome of a "man" in a time when the line between what is manly and what is not is often blurred. Great job my brother, keep representing!

Good points as always OG. Other points are to be truthful, don't build a character who you are not and don't commit to anything other than another date. Women remember all promises made , no matter how small. Be consistent.

Anyone else watching this a couple hour before the first date they've had in years? 😅

First Date in 2 hours, last time I literally wrecked my nerves till it hurts, and it was a disaster, watched so many videos, my brain was fucked up. This time I just watched this one videos of yours, lets hope I've learned something from the last date and your input. It all sounded very nice and I hope some of your input will pop into my mind while we sit there and learn to know each other :) Thank you!

Also, I hate interviews and asking questions, just to get someone to reciprocate conversation. It seems too much like interrogating someone. Especially when you have someone who doesnt reciprocate in kind. I would want a person who is interested in me, to express interest on their own. Not because I prompted them to talk by asking them questions. Sometimes people get individuals that will answer questions being asked, but when it's their turn to initiate getting to know about the other person, they are mute/nonproactive. So the person who is the initiator, has to manage both sides of the conversation. Like volunteering to tell the mute/non proactive person about themselves, and answering the same questions that they just asked the mute/non proactive person. That is a common reality. In my case it happened with some women I was trying to get to know. Another variation of this problem is, dealing with certain women that are only good conversationalists when they are talking about themselves. A lot of comedians have joked about this when it comes to some women. And as long as the man is showing interest, the woman actually believes she is having a two way conversation. She actually thinks the guy is a great conversationalist, and easy to talk to. LOL

Awesome real-world help. I like how you went into detail about WHY each idea works (or doesn't work) rather than just superficially give some tired list. I heard so many people lately "teach" NOT to ask cliche questions like "where are you from", movies, hit the lottery, etc. So thank you for explaining WHY these topics are always great.

Thanks for posting this video appreciate you bro

Great video Jeff I love a guy that can make me laugh as well as have a great conversation. I agree coffee dates are great!

Enjoyed and learned some things! Liked the man planning the date and taking the lead. Also, like the questions which open up conversation to learn about each other! Set a positive stage to move forward🙂 Thanks so much!!!

Good, simple, straightforward advice.

Hey big fan, I listen to you all the time. And use a lot of the things you talk about. I noticed that you said no concerts or amusement parks, it’s funny because I was just having this conversation with a few women about 2 days ago. And they were telling me that, I’m not sure if this falls into the same category as concerts and amusement parks but they were saying that they’d like or think a good first date would be bowling or something fun along those lines. They said that they would rather do something fun and they would like the competitiveness of the date. Like I said, I love what you do, it’s helped me a lot and I appreciate you brother!

Great topic and content you really knocked this one out the park OG

Thanks for the tips! This was exactly the video I was looking for!