I FEEL UNSAFE: Solo Female Van Life (Story 3)

For those of you concerned - I assure you I am well equiped to protect myself, and confident in my ability to do so. I did not share outright what means of protection I have at my disposal, but know your girl is prepared. This is not my first rodeo. Perhaps I'll make a video dedicated to my safety & defense protocols. Thank you for your love and for being on this journey with me. :) - Lyss

After reading some comments on this video I am so angry. I am in my mid 70’s and some of you blamed her for what happened. My generation was the 1 when mini skirts first became popular. I could not believe how some commented about her beautiful hair and her choice of clothing. Years ago when a woman or young girl was assaulted the Defense Attorney could use her attire or looks against her in the defense of the criminal who committed the crime. She has the right to her freedom to look & dress how she pleases, even if she wants to walk around in a bikini that doesn’t give any man the right to assault or behave in a way that makes her uncomfortable. If not now in the time of Me Too then when will Women have the same rights as a man. Stop Blaming The Victim! Put the blame where it belongs on the perpetrator.

I'm a retired Police Officer, when things like that happen & you feel uneasy, get out of that area, don't stay another minute, trust your instincts, do not ever hesitate to call Police right away, don't let someone follow you, call them.

I’m a retired deputy with over 30 years on the job. Let me make it clear. If you travel alone and you’re a lady carry a gun. It makes it the best equalizer between you and one, two, or three assailants. Do not be naïve criminals will always act as criminals if they think they can get away with it. A single person is a potential victim. I’m also a CCW instructor that’s how much I believe in your right and your life.

I’m a solo female with kids. In addition to my intuition to keep me safe. I find another great tool for safety. It’s my glock 44! :))

As the father of two grown daughters and an ex security officer I feel for your safety. Im in NC and would be glad to donate some items to make it so you don't have to fear anyone. Absolutely no obligation

I took space today. I’ve never heard of such a thing, but at 64 with so many losses, I had to pause and grieve today. I parked near a lake, reflected (maybe retreated a bit), listened to music, and prayed for my next step. Then, tonight I randomly stumble across this video. Thanks for being real with your emotions. ❤

As a relatively old happily married man, I feel obligated to apologize for the scumbags out there who make you feel uncomfortable. Keep spreading your positive vibes in the world, and don't let the scoundrels get you down (it sounds like you haven't!). God bless!

Holy smokes. We went there about a month ago, drove on the grass, looked at the surroundings and left. We went to KOA. I love Harvest Host but that one site was creepy. Always trust your gut! Glad you’re ok.

Don't be afraid to age...looks may fade ( and that is OK)..but men no longer stalk you OR the ones that do...you can out run!!..As I have ventured into my 60s, I realize that every decade of your life, frees you more!

The whole being stalked and cat called is something we men have no way to relate to. I can't imagine going through life having to worry about things like that. You are a very brave soul. Good thing you also keep your wits about you. Wish you well!

Hi Regretlyss, while watching your video, I am so worried for your safety. I wish you knew or in case you forgot. I would like to remind you that for a Solo Van Life. Every time you park your van, remember reverse and park your van in a position of your head van face outside. In case something goes wrong, you always have the scape plan. And if you are walking with your dog, please walk with your dog leashes. I also recommend you should carry a panic alarm. As a viewer I like to support your Chanel, which's why I choose subscribed.

Just as there is beauty in happiness and sunsets, there's beauty in the rain and the healing of pain.

I would have taken off as soon as I saw that neighbourhood.. I've driven this country many times and i get nervous at motels..if they feel dodgy..I just drive no matter how tired or late it is.

Thank you for your vulnerability and wisdom. I am going through a solo journey and dealing with heartbreak. You sharing your story is keeping me grounded, kept with good company, and a sense of peaceful courage to carry on. Thank you

You are so right about trusting your gut!! I told both of my daughters that it's better to risk feeling foolish than being a victim!! Have fun and stay safe!!

Rio is a beautiful dog, glad she's a good watch dog.

Hey Lyss.!! Just came across your Vlog which reminded me of my journey through similar situations in the '70s. I was a single lonely male looking for reasons why I didn't seem to fit in. Brothers suicide, depression leading to my own attempted suicide, drugs, meditation and purpose confusion. I came out the other side and now live a peace filled life. Love your practical skills, courageous emotional intelligence, processing fears, loss, and addressing the fear of the dark side of men who consider single women as bait. I just wanted to encourage you that you're not alone and don't allow fear to become a companion to overwhelm you and cause you to miss all the wonders of life on earth. I look back on my days and see so much good came out of my journey. At a deeper level, my unspoken questions about my circumstances opened me up to another world of thinking and one day I knew I was not alone. I had spiritual experiences and dreams that pointed me past the negative into a relational presence that has been with me ever since. The unknown eternal God of peace and security appeared to me in a private moment and it's he who has given me the joy of being who I am in all circumstances. Despite the junk that is thrown at me, by misunderstanding others, I am now very secure whether in a crowd or alone in the environment. Your transparent honesty is a commendable quality. I tell you this from personal experience. The wonderful and supernatural God who lives out of time came into my time and saved me from my personal nightmares and gave me a new life on his amazing planet. I ask him for you, that your journey leads you into the same emotional waking of healing and daily joy of knowing you are eternally loved, despite the private fears of doing it alone. No matter where you're at now, the God who made the physical universe from the realm of the supernatural/spiritual world has your back covered and looks forward to meeting you in his son Jesus. I could not say that if I had never discovered his eternal love so I leave this for you to ponder and in one of your alone moments I ask him to reveal himself to you. He's always available, when you're ready. Swing happy in the next part of your journey and dance regularly in the sunset. God bless.

You are such a kind, determined, courageous women. Safe travels.

Just found your channel. Sisterhood supports you in anger toward that creep. Its jostling. Manifesting more respectful men contact moving forward. Glad you could reset & find safer lodgings, more fulfillment & processing after grief. You are a strong poet. Cheers to safe travels from milwaukee 💜