How To Make The First Move! | Courtney Ryan

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In this video I go over some scenarios where I think you should make the first move, signs she wants you to and some tips on how to do it successfully! It can be difficult to put yourself out there and go for it but at the end of the day it's better to at least say you tried. I believe in all of you and don't forget... confidence is sexy! Hope you all enjoy and find this helpful ☺️

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コメント (21)
  • " The worst thing she can say is no. " me: * asks her out * her: I thought you were gay me: * dies inside *
  • Me to myself: "The worst she can say is no." Her: "Ew."
  • Courtney’s like that sister that you have that’s always looking out for you especially when you’re having trouble with dating.
  • I don't have a problem if she says no, I appreciate the honesty. What I do have a problem with is her not replying at all. Like I don't exist.
  • @1badsr
    Always make the first move. Get used to rejection, but get even more used to success.
  • "Just ask her out" was the thing I always keep in mind especially if the fears start to creep in. Worked wonders but I'm still making sure that the plans are set and my actions done with tact
  • If she rejects a kiss say, “it’s ok, I didn’t brush my teeth either” and smile.
  • @Elluzive
    That feeling when you craft the perfect witty message and get no response. 🙃
  • 1. Make the first move 2. Ask her out on a date 3. Going for a Hug/Kiss (OH GOD, THE KISS! - THIS ONE IS A NIGHTMARE TO GET IT RIGHT) 4. Physical Intimacy
  • I was out with a girl when she started putting on chap stick, I asked if I could try some and then kissed her. It took 3 days for the hand print to fade from my face.
  • One thing that helped me avoid fear of making a move was going out seeking failure and rejection. As in, “I’m going to go and get 100 overt ‘no’s’ in a row” and if I get a “yes”, it resets the counter. Seeking rejection consistently freed me up more than pressuring myself to go find success.
  • Your advice is so awesome. I feel like these are things that I've just had to learn through trial and error. You may be the first person I've ever heard verbalize the nuances of simple dating. I really do think you're making the world a better place by laying out a simple, approachable map for guys who struggle to understand how to treat a woman with respect. So refreshing.
  • 'The worst thing that she can say is no'- I think that's one of the better things she can say since the 3rd option is 'yes' and then just flake out later because rejecting people is awkward so just say yes and then pretend to be busy everyday forever. At least 'no' won't waste your time.
  • @Kjertinge
    My grandpa always said to me when it came to girls, if I can be brave for a minute the possibilities are endless. Especially if you’re someone who is introverted/shy. If you can just step out of your comfort zone for 1 minute, you might end up with someone meaningful. As soon as you can spark the conversation it’ll become easier as the date or interaction continues
  • @tstreb66
    The best rejection I ever got was, "Hey, thanks for asking. I am flattered, but to be honest, I'm not attracted to you and don't want to waste your time. Good luck." Direct communication is what men want and love!
  • You’re an angel Courtney. You give a lot of these dudes the encouragement they need to especially coming from a pretty woman like yourself it’s a breath of fresh air.
  • “If she’s staring into your soul, she wants to kiss you” idk why this had me rollin 😂