The Letting Go Paradox: Make Them Want You
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Published 2024-07-03
In this video we talk about attachment, attraction, and letting go. So often in life we can find ourselves chasing and pursuing things we believe will make our lives better. In doing this, we often disempower ourselves and end up pushing those very things we desire further away from us. In this video we discuss how this process works, and what we can do to find more freedom and wholeness in ourselves, and allow that in turn to radiate out into the world so we attract instead of repel.
All Comments (21)
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Attachment is the root of all suffering.
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“You re trying to fill a whole that doesn’t exist ”. Summed it perfectly.
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this is genuinely one of the best videos on this topic i've ever listened to.
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The universe really led me here at 4am to watch this completely undistracted ❤
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I was always strong and hiperindependent girl, secretly suffering from an absent father. During the video, I visiulised and told him "I love you and I'm grateful for you being my father and I know you always love me and give me power, but I have had suffered enough for your absence in my everyday life, I have a whole life that I want to live for myself and I can't have it unless stop waiting for you to make me your little princess again, so I am letting go of my this attachment and expectation for my life, and I will start live my life, even you'd not here for me all the time. I love you."
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No one is our savior, except ourselves. We need to feel complete on our own, we have to fullfill ourself. I have a text on my wall in my living room "Be the energy you want others to absorb".
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It happened with my mother... She was anxious and attached to a life where her son was present and making her feel safe and loved.. I told her one day, while she was in tears, "You have lived your life and created and nurtured a beautiful family, allow me to live my life and create my family". At first she was scared, that her life would be worse without her son... It's been a year and now she's even more excited when i visit and tells me all about the life she now lives (she went back to reading more, wants to start writing). She has recovered her hobbies and passions and that's what you all need to understand, and so do I. Once we let go of what fills our heart, the hole can be filled with new opportunities, new people, new activities, new philosophies of life that can inspire us to become something much different and much greater. We start living the life we want to live, not the life that others want for us. There is nothing more inspiring than knowing that a heartbreak or a loss can be a blessing for allowing us the opportunity to grow and become what our soul wishes we become.
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This video hit hard for me. My current issue with chasing someone for the last year and I'm working toward breaking out of it. Thank you.
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A useful exercise for other relationships and situations too, such as family, friends and jobs, even dreams and material items. Thank you
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❤❤❤❤❤ hit hard. we keep chasing for a feeling not a person. we always on our own.
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Absolutely spot on. Letting go is one of the most important things you can do in your life. Conscious inaction can allow your higher self to come through to guide your true path. 🧡🙏🧡
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The voice and the pronunciation easily make top 10 of the best voices that I've ever heard in my life. 😂❤
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I agree completely with this. But my inner child finds it so hard lol
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This video truly needs more views. He's helping me solve all these feelings that were under the surface & why I really feel that way. Thank you for helping all of us develop a better sense of self!
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Thank you for this video. As a codependent needy person I needed this video and it is true. ❤
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This hit hard… I’m 44 and my wife passed from cancer 6 months ago, we were soulmates and I’ve been struggling so badly and this video really helped me see the mistakes I made with her from childhood trauma. I don’t want to make the same mistakes again but yet i find myself trying to fill a void that I feel inside. My relationship with God is the only thing that has saved me and it’s still a daily battle between my fleshly desires and my spirit. Great information very accurate and true.
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I so much needed this beautiful message. Thank you! ❤❤❤❤❤
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Nailed it! Read about letting go for years - you say it best
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This video just started playing out of nowhere but I’m glad I’m here. It’s what I needed.
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Brilliant video. I used to be plagued with severe anxiety for years and once I started practicing detachment and letting go, I took back control of my life. The anxiety could no longer run it for me. I’m grateful to creators like you who spread the word about the life changing effects of letting go!
