AITA Husband threw a BBQ party. I REFUSED to help.OR Being BLUNT about not Drinking | Comfort Level

"Not pulling my weight"? 🤣 It's his party - she's got zero weight to pull!

How does the BBQ husband not even know where the plates are??? Man has never lifted a finger to help her.

Honestly that woman with the bbq husband IS NOT THE ASSHOLE. Proves the point that men literally feel intitled to womens time. They are taught that way. Great show guys!

Claudia is so savage 😂 directly calling out the BBQ husband for being useless in front of his colleagues omg

“Where r the dishes?” Lolol boy it’s YOUR HOUSE

I think he deserved the wake up call, he didn’t even take a step back and appreciate all that she does for him constantly. Instead he just was rude and got mad at her for not automatically doing everything for him like she always has WITHOUT appreciation. He’s a loser tbh and I’m glad he was embarrassed of his lack of basic skills

For the BBQ story, based on her testimony, her husband was treating her like she was his mother and he had invited his schoolmates to party at home. He never acknowledged or recognized her contributions to the party. Why else would he be blindsided by all the missing elements. And then to throw a fit afterward, instead of shame faced apologize for not noticing her efforts? That did not sound like a healthy marriage. The real issue, as the casts had mentioned, was communication. If they were not going to talk this through, I only see divorce in their future.

If someone kept trying to get me to drink, I'd loudly announce "No, I'm not going to sleep with you, please leave me alone!" And let them explain their behavior to anyone who asked. There is absolutely no way to recover from that.

The bbq story is representative of 95% of husbands/men expectation’s.

He made it clear she wasn’t invited

BBQ wife needs to just start blasting Paris Paloma's song "Labour" where her husband can hear. 🎶All day, every day, therapist, mother, maid Nymph then a virgin, nurse then a servant Just an appendage, live to attend him So that he never lifts a finger🎶

I don't think the flag guy is an a hole bc she had ill intent while recording and just judged from first glance and didn't even care to ask why they had the flag or even see if they were good ppl. So personally I wouldn't want someone like that in my house.

On the last story, it blows my mind that they didn't kick the guy out of the party for harassing one of the hosts. I would've told him that his behavior wasn't welcome and he needed to leave my home

I hate when people try to peer pressure you into to drinking, red flags, and very disturbing. Like are you genuinely okay?? How psycho do you have to be to pressure someone to take a drink? The wife who didn’t help with the bbq was not the a-hole… dude really thought it was HER fault for making them look bad … men can really feel entitled to their woman doing all the house work and other unpaid labor. He didn’t even formally invite her… like eff that guy. The flag incident, not the a-hole either it’s his house and she clearly should pay more attention

How was he not embarrassed being a grown ass adult trying to peer pressure another adult into drinking. This has happened with my boyfriend who can’t drink at all because he is allergic to alcohol! And sometimes people don’t even believe him 😵‍💫

No means no and that includes refusing alcohol. I hate people that push alcohol on others especially former alcoholics. You don't deserve to know why someone doesn't want to drink. They just don't

The story with the alcoholic OP: no is a complete sentence. If Mark can’t take a simple No he deserves to be slapped down.

Died laughing at “reneged” and how unsure Madi looked 😂😂😂

Love that the first guy thinks that racists dont have hospitality

Ok hold on 23:42 “instead of bringing up an uncomfortable truth from my past…???” so the guy pushing the drink was not an A-hole for making EVERYONE uncomfortable in that situation????