Grooms Ruining Their Own Weddings

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Funny thing is that, alot of wedding goers and photographers have said that whenever a groom ruins the wedding (cake smashing and shitty vows), the chances of divorce is super super high.

When I got married (am now divorced) the groom insisted during the entire planning stage that he wanted there to be cake smashing involved at the wedding, despite my protests every step of the way. My dress was the most expensive part of our wedding, and I put so much time and effort into my hair and makeup that if I got cake smashed, the reception would be over. I'd rather leave than try and recover. We eventually decided to have our guests put donations in jars with our names on them and whoever's jar had the most money when we went to cut the cake would get smashed. That way it was a 50/50 shot and he would have to take the risk of losing instead of it being guaranteed to be me. He lost, despite spending a lot of time at the reception convincing his family to put money in my jar. I don't know why it was so important to him, it's not even funny, but I'm grateful that at the end of the day, he was the one with cake on his face and he realized exactly why that isn't a cute, fun, nice thing to do.

I dated a wedding photographer years ago. She would check in on couples afterwards to see if they wanted to do another shoot, and genuine interest. She said that 100% of the couples she worked with who smashed cake into each other's faces got divorced.

Read about a bride who requested to not have cake shown in her face because of trauma. Her whole childhood, her family would ruin her birthday by pressing cake in her face. No matter how often she told them that it upsets her. So she begged to at least have her wedding day without a cake in the face, yet her husband did it anyways to ”get closer to her family”. She did not continue that relationship.

The fact that that woman ran away and begged him not to, for him to proceed to do it so hard she hits her head on the wall and falls down☠️ I would immediately annul that marriage.

the "post cake smash clarity" is so fucking funny like the bride is just bewildered probably saying "why...did you do that" and he's just shamefully like "uh...idk"

Dude on his phone better be texting his mom who’s in the hospital and telling her how happy he is to married to his wife.

jesus the bride is always like "hehe i got cake on ur face!" and then hERE COMES THE GROOM WITH THE STEEL CHAIR-

Kurtis invited me to his wedding and then actually threw his wedding cake in my face and did a kick flip over me before feeding me to some wolves. Pretty solid wedding honestly 9/10

That poor woman excusing those horrible wedding vows… the way he belittles her and publicly degrades her and she defends it as “his sense of humour”. It will take time to recognise abuse in a relationship. I hope she gets there soon.

The bride and groom at 10:25 — there’s no way that dude isn’t physically and verbally abusive. The bride wasn’t “joking” in any manner — he HITS her face with that stupid cake after literally cornering her. And she is displaying genuine fear, holding her arms out and pleading with him to stop — then he clocks her beautifully made-up face and hair with a fist full of cake. What an absolute creep.

As someone who's planning a wedding I can't fathom the financial decision of tossing an entire wedding cake at someone in a wedding dress.

Imagine paying that much for a wedding and shit like this happens💀💀💀

On my moms wedding my stepdad slightly pished the cake on her nose a bit and she was smiling the entire time and did the same to him. There is absolutely no reason for your bride or groom to be on the floor from it

The cake smashing thing bums me out. Feeding each other is the simplest gesture of trust between two people.

the fact that kurtis just uses his green screen to make him marry himself instead of just asking jenna is so fucking funny man i love him his humor is the best

The feeding each other cake is a symbolism of how you are going to treat and care for your partner. So smashing the cake into their face... says some words.

The saddest part is, this is probably just the tip of the iceberg. If he behaves like this on his wedding day, with everyone looking, imagine behind closed doors 🤐

When my mom and my ex-stepdad got married he shoved a whole cake in her face. She ran to the bathroom and cried while the women in my family tried to fix her hair, face, and dress. I ran to my then stepdad and told him he hurt my mom while I myself was on the verge of tears for her (I was like 6). I still think about that moment occasionally. He turned out to be a drunk and abusive...so I guess it was foreshadowing.