AITA for Playing God's Plan at Wedding OR Not Taking Down Gift from Best Man | Comfort Level Podcast

The parents literally chose a sick dog over their sons wedding. I’d keep it there for life.

The first story is wild to me because basically the friend wants to pay 3k to ruin the OP's wedding day. It's important to the friend that she doesn't know, which implies the goal is to actually make her suffer the humiliation and disrespect of the joke being done at her expense; given the lyrics, the punchline is that on her supposedly most joyous day, on the moment of the dance she's been planning and anticipating for years, she gets told she isn't loved. It's a cruel joke and no amount of money is worth it. At no point was it said that they needed money desperately to even consider this an option, that's why she was quick to say no. What is there to consider? Seems like the couple may have differences in values worth discussing further. The whole thing is weird, why didn't Ian save it for pranking his own future bride if he thinks it's so funny?

For the gods plan wedding situation, I think it should be entirely decided by the bride. She is the one being pranked and humiliated, not the groom. Don’t talk to me about compromise if YOU want to embarrass ME. He’s giving up less than her. Had to get this off my chest 😂

no he should keep it up, taking it down is letting them get away with their behaviours. other people in his life have to know they act this way, so realistically it's not a surprise. i think publicly shaming them for blatantly favoring their daughter is fair after so many times.

Honestly, any prank at a wedding is tasteless and trashy, but also unless both parties are enthusiastic about it don't do it.... it screams "this couple is bound for divorce"

I feel like the bigger issue with this wedding is the hold this rich friend is having over their wedding. It's like he's looking for clout over this guy by offering him $3,000 to prank his fiance on one of the most important days of their life. Why are they giving this guy that much power for such a cheap ass price?

Honestly the wedding Drake story. 3k isn't all that much. The only message you are sending is it only takes 3k for you to disrespect your wife. You don't even look good doing it if both people are not involved. If she does a bad reaction, he’ll look like a complete knob.

If a rich friend wanted to “prank” my wedding day…they’re paying for the ENTIRE wedding PLUS our honeymoon. And you bet we flying internationally in first class. You don’t just get to prank a friend’s wedding period! And if you’re offering money, $3k is chump change IMO. The audacity of the rich friend to even wanna pull a prank and then lowball them like that lol.

Y'all are so sweet. F those parents 🤣 they've literally made him feel second best his whole life and, this time, it was to a dog. Nah. The video stays. Be blessed. They even told him his sister's been crying all week....as if he's okay with them missing his biggest day.

He should burn the video on a CD and send it to his parents and sister as a wedding souvenir 😌😌😌 .... Remind 'em at every anniversary 😅

Parents just mad they got called out and their true colors are showing. That's the best part about family. Family doesn't necessarily mean blood. And some are unlucky enough to be born to a family who cares but you can always make and find a family who cares. Know your worth.

The second story is so messed up, I think he has every right to leave it up because it's not like the post is wrong, and frankly I would have gone off about how they didn't just miss his wedding wich is once in a lifetime, but his graduation is also once in a lifetime and concerts too? I think they deserve to have it thrown in their face cause maybe they'd realize how hurtful that must be. He's definitely NTA, and I agree with his final statement to his father that he's not going to take it down until they do make it up.

KEEP IT UP !!! THE EMBARRASSMENT THE PARENTS GAVE HIM FOR NOT SHOWING UP FOR THE WEDDING IS FOREVER !! SO THIS EMBARRASSMENT IS FOREVER! I WOULDN’T EVEN CONSIDER TAKING IT DOWN !

I wouldn't have posted such a video, but once it's up... It's up and I agree with it. The disrespect to not attend to your son's wedding because your daughter's dog is sick... It's baffling. I say this as someone who loves their dog VERY much, to the point I've cried my eyes out on the way to the vet the one time he had to be sedated. As the sister, I would not let my parents miss such an event and I would do my best to attend myself as well, regardless of how hard depression is hitting me that particular day. It's not like I didn't have months to mentally prepare for that one day. One day. I have to be there for my sibling. It's THE one day.

How can you think it is ok to mess up with your partner in your wedding for money? The friend is sick, and the groom should never consider hurting her for money, this is bizarre

I would say everyone deserves to hear the family drama when the family probably pretends to be saints to everyone but actually miss your wedding! Some people only care about a public image and it seems the parents care more about theirs then there sons wedding!

I ain’t gon lie…I’m keeping that shit up and reposting it every anniversary for every year y’all ignored me and my feelings until I’ve gone through enough therapy to where posting it no longer satisfies me. They drew their line in the sand, whether they want to admit it or not, and now they’re not liking that they’re getting a taste of the very same betrayal. So if y’all won’t show up for me, the person who didn’t ask to be here, I will. Yea, that’s staying up and all of y’all are getting tagged 😂

My take on the 3k first dance is ... How much are you spending on your wedding? Because if it ruins the wedding for the bride and your spending 10k that's a wasted 7k. You spent all that money and weren't happy. If you spent about 3k small wedding ehhh why not. But I would also negotiate for more as the grom if Ian really is so rich. Be like ehhh I would do it for 5k. But they should both be in the same page regardless

He should definitely keep it up, Imagine for a so many events of your life being missed because of your sibling. Then, when your wedding comes, they decide to not go because of your sister's dog being sick. Even if he wantd to take it down, he didn't know about it and he had no cell-service. Parents like this deserve be called out for favoritism. And in general, just being bad parents. They clearly have a favorite child. Unfortunately, it's pretty obvious.

Someone post the wedding video!!!! I’m invested in this now lol someone tag the url